Today, we are going to talk about a problem in interpersonal relationships. In interpersonal relationships, we will meet such a person. When you are with him, you will be very uncomfortable because he has many things to do. It will be tiring to get along with such a person, but you will also find that such a person does more. Although he has many things, he also pays more. So why is this? Is there any basis for this? In fact, this is because the fate of Bi Jie raw food damage is more abundant. Next, I will explain to you the numerological logic here.
Let me tell you what characteristics a person with such a horoscope has in his character or behavior.
So how to get along with such people and how to know such people correctly? Let's discuss it together today.
1. Like to act according to your own wishes
means that when you two cooperate, he always wants to express his opinions and always hopes that you will do things according to his wishes. Under normal circumstances, he does not follow your wishes. Do things.
2. The pursuit of perfection
In fact, the pursuit of perfection also means that the standard of form is relatively high. He wants to do this thing perfectly, does it mean that his standard for this matter is also relatively high, so raising this standard will have an impact on the results, usually It's more beneficial.
does one thing, so of course it is a good thing that he does it perfectly. But it is not always a good thing. Sometimes there may be problems. There is a standard called excess quality. In the production management process, we have heard of the term excess quality. What means? That is, your standards are too high. The standards are already higher than the standards for use. There is no need for such high standards when using them, but you have set the quality standard too high, exceeding actual needs. The part that exceeds the actual demand is a surplus. Sometimes it does not mean that the higher the quality, the better. If the quality is too good and exceeds the demand standard, it is a surplus, which is a bad thing.
Therefore, you must have a certain degree of perfection in your pursuit of perfection. If you pursue perfection too much, you are being picky or nitpicking, and it is easy for others to feel this way. It makes people feel very uncomfortable to get along with him.
3. He can’t stand others and only does it by himself.
Also, he can’t stand others and only does it by himself. His personality is picky and he loves to care about others, which usually makes people unhappy. Comfortable, this is a situation.
He can't stand others. Others may not always act in accordance with his wishes, because others have their own ideas, thoughts, rules and standards for doing things, and they may not necessarily act in accordance with his wishes. Do it.
What should we do in this case? He can only do it by himself, so what does it mean to do it by himself? On behalf of my own hard work, from the other party's perspective, since he has such high demands and feels that I can't do it well, then let him do it, and he will do it himself.
This situation is actually beneficial to the partner. Originally, the partner was supposed to share his pressure or help him do some things, but in the end, he did everything himself. This way it will be easier for the partners.
Why do you say you secretly enjoy yourself after making such a friend? This is what it means!
4. Have strong self-esteem and will not refuse
For example, if he makes a request, then you say that I am not capable, but you are so capable that you should do it. In other words, you have done important things, and I will do what I can do. At this time, he will not refuse. Why won't he refuse? It's because they have stronger self-esteem and are more arrogant.
He thinks that your ability is not as strong as his or that some of your ways of doing things are not good enough for him.At this time, you can
shift some responsibilities to him, and he can only do it. If he doesn't do it, it is obviously not good for him to always ask others to do this. People like
have relatively strong self-esteem, and sometimes they won't refuse, and they won't refuse things that don't belong to them. Of course, he will suffer. Then there is another situation, as I just said, if he can't understand others and the way they do things, and if he can't meet his own standards and requirements, he can only do it himself.
So, when you cooperate with such a person, he actually does a lot of things himself, so it will be easier for you. The only bad thing about making such a friend is that you will be criticized or underestimated, and the other person will not take care of your emotions. This is what makes you uncomfortable when interacting and cooperating with such a person. Shows little respect for you.
5. Picking on others and caring about others, making others uncomfortable
Then, if you like to pick on others and care about you, he will feel that this place is not perfect and that place is not good, and attacking you will make you feel uncomfortable. But if you can adapt to this, that is to say, you can put him first and let him take on more responsibilities. If you can adapt to such a situation, you will be more relaxed. If this person is very capable, , you work with him to do things or start a business, seek money, etc. Then if he does more, you will take advantage.
The only bad thing is that you should not have too much self-esteem in front of him. If you have too much self-esteem, you will feel uncomfortable. It's hard to get along with him.
