1. When others praise you, you should also be able to transfer the praise to that person.
This way you can be recognized without incurring the jealousy of others. For example, Huang Bo once appeared on Lu Yu 's program. As soon as Lu Yu saw Huang Bo, he said: "You are very popular now." Huang Bo directly replied: "Is that possible? It can be done. I'm sitting here chatting with Lu Yu!"
In this way, you can not only recognize yourself, but also praise others. If you only unilaterally affirm others' praise of you, others may think you are arrogant. It's just a few compliments, that's all you are, this person is not good.
2. Learn to buy water
Buying water is the key point that can quickly establish a good impression in others' minds. For example, when you meet someone for the first time, if you buy two cups of milk tea/drink, it will make people think: "Oh, you have me in your heart." Or when someone comes to decorate your home, give them a bottle of water, and they will give If you decorate more carefully, it won't trick you.
Don't be stingy with this little money, it can lay a very good foundation for your interpersonal relationships.
3. When you lose your temper with others because you are in a bad mood, don't directly say "I'm sorry, I'm being unreasonable."
This will make others feel that you are making trouble unreasonably, and they will also feel resentful about what just happened. You can say: "Thank you for your understanding just now." This way others will feel, oh, it turns out you understand me, and they will also feel that you can understand him.
Because a direct apology will make people think that you admitted it and that you were just being unreasonable and losing your temper. Then I can tolerate your tantrums, but what I want is definitely not just an apology.
4. Don’t try to change anyone
No one will change because of you, but they will be moved by your money. Before interests, be a villain first and then a gentleman.
People who want to make changes will never do it just because of your few words. Why not make changes? It’s because everyone has their own purpose, and if they don’t change, they are just to escape or face it. These purposes, the actions performed.
Only money can make the world go round.
5. Things don’t have to be done beautifully, but words must be spoken beautifully.
You may not be able to do some things, nor are you willing to do them, but you still need to be good at speaking. If you speak nicely, others will It feels happy to hear it, just like when you go to dinner and the boss says: "Give this brother more meat!", then it doesn't matter whether there is really more meat afterwards.
6. Don’t go empty-handed when visiting other people’s homes.
Even if you don’t prepare anything, it’s still good to go to the supermarket downstairs to buy a few kilograms of fruit or a box of milk. It would be too rude to visit someone else's home empty-handed, so you can't blame others for their indifference.
7. If things can be solved with money, don’t use favors.
If you can pay off things with money, you can’t explain it clearly with favors.
8. When you have the ability to make money, don’t dawdle.
Don't be lazy, make more money, save more money, you never know when you will need money.
9. Don’t be a person with too much shame.
Strong people are lonely and have no shame. No matter what others think or say, you can feel at ease. What about the poor? He just cares too much about other people's opinions of him. A few words from others will kill him, he can't eat, and he can't sleep well.
10. Don’t interrupt when someone is talking about others.
Because you don’t know if this is a trap, a trap to lure you into. Maybe what you say today will be changed in other people’s ears the next second.
11. Don’t pity anyone.
Poor people must be hateful. You must remember this sentence. No one will be pitied for no reason! Don't feel that a person is pitiful and then overflow with sympathy. If you really want to overflow with sympathy, then get to know and understand that poor person. When you truly understand his pity, it will not be too late to overflow with sympathy.
