Hi everyone, I am Axiu.
Recently, a reader approached me and said that this man has been suffering from poor fortune, and he has no fortune in his thirties. Should he find a master to break it?
means All opportunities are essentially in yourself, not in others, and not in the outside world .
It is impossible for anyone to be unlucky forever. There are several opportunities to make a fortune in his life, but the reactions of people and people when encountering wealth may be very different.
The so-called lack of wealth, some people do not have enough ability.So I can’t catch it;
Some people are very tough on the wrong options because of their weak choices, but they push the correct options;
p0span12 It’s because of impulsive personality, making mistakes is always the first time, and correcting mistakes is always procrastinating... It pushed out the door, and even fearing that the fortune would not go away quickly, it kicked its butt twice.
So instead of looking for a master, it is better to think about what is wrong with you.
01.
Smart, hardworking, bold?
Anything related to opportunity will inevitably be accompanied by trials and risks, and must pay a corresponding price.
The price can be intelligence, diligence, or the risk of others who dare not take.
I once had a conversation about recruitment with an old leader,This leader graduated from a top 3 in Haidian, with the arrogance of graduating from a prestigious school.
She said that she doesn't like candidates from very poor schools, especially students with poor bachelor and master degrees.
I said, you are academic discrimination !
She said that what she really cares about is not academic qualifications, but the personality traits reflected by academic qualifications.
First of all, these children have not been admitted to a good school with a master's degree. They are either not smart enough or not working hard enough.
The lack of these two characteristics will determine that it is difficult for him to be a good employee, even if he has a good opportunity.
Note that is not impossible, but difficult to become. Now that the pace of work is so fast, who would not want to recruit a good seed directly? It is difficult for him to have a good opportunity.
I said,Could it be that he failed the college entrance examination?
She said that this is another problem. He clearly failed, and he knew he should do better, but he didn't have the guts to do it again.
If you have no talent, hard work, no courage, and dare not take the risk that ordinary people can't, then this person is easy to wander on the low level for a long time.
So you can ask yourself these questions:
Are you talented?
The talent is not good, are you working hard enough?
If there are none, would you dare to overthrow it?
Honestly, it doesn't matter if you lack one item, you can also live without two items. If you lack three items, it is dangerous, so you have to endure an unsatisfactory life.
even if you really have fortune in front of you,You can't see, hold, and do it soon.
02.
is always in a state of entanglement
It’s because some people don’t want to be pure enough and always want to like it. , In fact, it's a confused bug, so you can't get anything.
In the TV series " years", Director Wen once told Liang Zhiyuan who played by Hu Jun _span2p strong span12 _span14 strongspan _span2 0p strongspan12 , I am not afraid of being bad forever, just being afraid of good times and bad times, without characteristics.
is not to make you a bad guy, but to say that most of the time, we are like this, not pure enough, and have no characteristics.
is always in a state of entanglement. Either you want and want it, or you are afraid of it, you are in a state of riding a wall, but you can't do anything.
you want to make money,Although working hard, but not working hard enough, so the money did not make;
You want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but you are afraid of missing a job, so you seek a job while taking the postgraduate entrance examination, two are not good enough;
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Do you want the leader to approve, but you are afraid that your colleagues will say you are kneeling and licking, and you are always in an ambiguous state. The leader does not approve of you, and colleagues still think you are kneeling and licking...
If you want and want it again, it's better to figure out what you "want more", and then devote yourself wildly to a single point.
A person with a real goal, like a sharp and unmatched knife, will never be caught by anything outside the goal.
This is also the competition strategy of Huawei . It is the best competitive strategy that always invests more in the goal than the opponent.
Rather than jumping horizontally between different goals, it’s better to think about what goal you want to pursue and set a cost line for this goal.Then go to rush without hesitation, if the cost line has not reached the target, stop the loss in time.
03.
Falling into the "Single Truth View"
We have long been accustomed to test-oriented education and have only one standard answer.
But when you get into society, especially as your experience increases, you will find that the world is too complicated. There is more than one answer to many questions, and there is more than one way to solve the problem. Many things cannot be said to be dead.
But the reason why opportunities are opportunities is that many people do not understand them at first.
The principle is very simple. Everyone can only use their limited knowledge, experience, and position to understand this complex world, so they can only understand the part they can understand.
When the opportunity to change your destiny comes, not understanding is the norm.
must step out of the view of the only truth and never let your own prejudices constrain yourself ,And then think that your own ideas are the only truth, otherwise it is easy to miss opportunities.
For example:
When I was in middle school, I would be cheated on Taobao, who would buy things online! As a result, Taobao quickly grew.
My undergraduate major was advertising , I think there will be advertising at any time, initially I was proud to enter a 4A advertising company. Now 4A is gradually out.
When I was in graduate school, I thought that Taobao and JD.com were the top two, and there would never be a new challenger. As a result, Pinduoduo was born.
When I started working on new media, I felt that people would always need to read articles, and the high cost of video shooting would never be popular. But now Douyin, Kuaishou, and Station B are getting stronger and stronger.
After being slapped repeatedly in the face, I no longer dare to say anything easily.
all of this I think is impossible,Or the trend that is ignored is actually the wealth of the door, and we have repeatedly persuaded ourselves that there must be no wealth in this golden mountain.
The meaning of this is not to encourage everyone to try everything, but to tell everyone not to die, especially not to firmly believe that you must be right.
According to my experience, all those things that make you jump on the street, or don’t agree with it in your heart, may be the future opportunities.
04.
The more unsatisfactory life is, the less you should make small repairs
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If the most important things in your value world are small favors, then you will invisibly set a ceiling for yourself, no matter how good the opportunity is before you, you too Will ignore it.
It's not that the chance is bad, but you have locked your radar, and you don't think you deserve a better chance.
But most people like to find some small opportunities to make minor repairs to their lives. But in fact, this kind of opportunity is difficult to completely change you, and it also locks up your own situation.
Zeng Guofan There is a saying, "After being stubborn, the town will be fierce" _strong.
The general idea is that the stubborn disease has accumulated for a long time, and it takes strong medicine to see the effect, and it cannot be improved a little bit.
Some time ago I went to a friend's house as a guest. His house was filled with large boxes full of feminine accessories, such as head flowers and ear studs.
He said that these items were previously set up in a stall, and the reason they have been kept is to set up a stall one day. If it is impossible, you can also sell it on salted fish.
He said that because the wages are too low now, he can only do some subsidies for the family.
I said how much money did you make,He was embarrassed to say that after a month and a half, he earned more than a thousand.
I said you can do something with higher net worth. Why do you have to do something with low net worth?
I don’t want to talk about it. Don’t you know how to write articles? We can provide two thousand content posts here.
If you don’t help, you can also learn a technique, such as video editing, our part-time editing, and you can earn eight or nine thousand a month.
But the reason why he did not choose these is nothing more than writing articles and learning clips, the cycle is longer and the cost is higher, but it is effortless to set up a street stall, and you can even fish for three days and two days. Expose the net.
Setting up a street stall can only increase your income by 10%, but there are jobs that can increase your income by 100%. The former is not helpful to you, the latter can significantly improve your life, you choose Which one?
You are looking for higher income, not simple, easy, and free. If you have any objections, you can view the second part of the content.
the more you treat yourself now,The more you need to make a huge effort to change your life.
05.
Tips
According to the convention, I will give you some more practical suggestions in the last part of the article. The following is how to better seize the fortune:
1) Find noble people.
The reason for looking for a noble person is not to provide you with opportunities and money, but to improve your awareness, because there are some roads out there that you will not be able to see without pointing you.
How to find a noble person? It is not necessary to ask him for dinner or add WeChat. It is also possible to delve into his articles, books, and projects.
If you really want to get pointers, you can pay or provide value crazy.
2) Be kind to others.
In this world,Anyone can give you output value, so don't underestimate anyone, and don't easily be enemies. You don't know where the opportunity will be.
3) Don't want it at the same time, keep it pure.
If you want to make money, work hard to earn it. Don’t worry about who says you get your money, don’t worry about others saying you’re kneeling and licking, let alone the jealousy of outsiders. The benefits.
As for other things, outsiders are like clouds to me.
4) Look for the most profitable things within your abilities.
Everyone can do many things, but it is recommended that you choose the one with the best monetization effect.
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5) Ordinary people counterattack,The best way is to specialize.
For children from poor families, if you want to counterattack, of course it is not the kind of getting rich. The best way is to specialize.
If you are a good student, you can become a programmer, engineer, and doctor.
If you don’t read well, you can go to be a chef or a professional worker.
It is not a dream for any professional who can get the top spot in a small area.
6) Stay open. Anything that disgusts you may be an opportunity.
I have seen all kinds of spammers on the Internet with different concepts. To them, it is like killing their father.
But in fact, those concepts that you don't agree with, those things you dislike from the bottom of your heart, may be opportunities.
even if it’s not an opportunity,It can also broaden your knowledge of the world.
So, when you are a spunk, you will lock in your life principles.
Remember, good luck.
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* About the author
Axiu, a text dreamer who pursues "sentence show, bone show, and god show", a personal management expert who loves codewords, 36 Writer, many articles have gained tens of millions of readings on the whole network.
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