lifts the camera, sports mode, shutter continuously "clicks", recording every moment of the happy scene. After a long time, the wedding film restarts business.
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This is the sense of ceremony that every couple pays the most attention to.
The reason why weddings are called "ritual" is that is an important milestone in a person's life and belongs to a kind of life etiquette. Newcomers use this etiquette to gain recognition and blessings from society.
In traditional Chinese wedding ceremonies, what is respected is to repay the kindness of parents' raising and seek support and blessings from relatives and friends. In the increasingly Western-style wedding, although wedding suits have become the fashion of dresses, Chinese blood still flows from the bottom of the bones. Throughout the entire process, we still see the inheritance of Chinese traditional culture and still feel the cultural genes of etiquette and righteousness that are immersed in this land.
More than ten years ago, I hosted some weddings of all sizes and witnessed a couple of newlyweds entering the palace of marriage with my blessings. With the farewell of "The Road to Happiness Departs Here", the court was filled with joy.
Happiness has always been different. All the sense of ritual is most important from parents' comfort for their children to start a family and start a career, from the joy and expectation of young men and women in a new era, and also the emotions of the family and friends.
The surprise and expectation of the bride and groom is to be watched by all eyes and be the happiest person immediately. Wherever the eyes go, they are warm, embracing each other, affectionate, and naturally understand it. When a couple stands on the wedding stage, they always make all the relatives and friends present feel a deep affection and taste different tastes.
Full of blessings, I feel envious and jealous. Today, when the marriage and love market continues to rise, the family has children and is worried about marrying. As more and more young people are unmarried, every time we attend a wedding, we always feel mixed sighs, and we can't help but feel anxious in our hearts. Seeing how happy other people's children are, when will the big marriage of my children be realized?
stylized wedding ceremony, the emcee repeated the hosting words thousands of times, inciting everyone's emotions. In front of the table, there is always a long process for the owner, and the guests always want the rhythm to be faster, and everyone is waiting for dinner and entertainment time later.
A variety of life, in the background of a colorful house, actually has too many of its own. No matter how festive you are, you will always be bored playing with your phone, or even just close your eyes and rest. What the camera records is everyone's attitude towards life. After the bustling and bustling, you always have to face the mess of your life.
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Do you feel too much sigh in the new marriage era?
A few days ago, I wrote an observation on the impact of the current situation of rural marriage and love on the current school students. In this article, I mentioned a point, that is, the accelerating urbanization process, the centralized development of cities, and the acceleration of life pace, have an impact on the marriage and love of the younger generation.
has several aspects of thinking, such as the orientation of values. The further widening of the gap between the rich and the poor in society has an impact on class division and on the marriage and love of the younger generation in small cities, especially in rural areas. With the increasing dowry and the increase in the cost of marriage, the reality that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooliganism is easy to fall into a polarized situation.
There is another issue that cannot be ignored and needs attention, that is, we have found that more and more young women prefer to develop in big cities. This will also bring more resource shortage to the marriage and love market in third- and fourth-tier cities. Especially the imbalance in the ratio of men and women should attract particular attention. From a higher perspective, marriage and love will affect the continuous transmission and endless life of this nation.
More than 20 years ago, we found that we could find a romantic friend nearby. For example, colleagues working in a unit often have a higher chance of becoming partners. In the teacher industry, the original ratio of men and women is relatively average, so it is easier to solve internally.With the further increase in the level of economic development and the higher pressure on society to men, especially economic pressure, more and more young men are unwilling to engage in grassroots education, and the proportion of women working is increasing, which also brings a crisis of marriage and love, which greatly reduces the professional loyalty caused by this.
is not just in the education system, but also in other public offices, and in third- and fourth-tier cities, the marriage and love issues of young men and women in third- and fourth-tier cities need attention from departments at all levels. Whether marriage and love are stable is particularly important to the impact of career aspirations. Although long-distance relationships are romantic, they do not have the core of family stability in the future. Everything will go from being uneasy to falling into a hesitation about whether family is important or career is important.
So, from this level, whether it is a countryside or a city, for young men and women, we need a better employment environment, we also need pragmatic values, and we also need the struggle of the younger generation and the inheritance of hard work and hard work, which can be better carried forward.
retains young people and plants hope for development in a place. For a village, a community, and a unit, we need a more harmonious marriage and love environment, and we also need a better footnote to the times.
Every time you press the shutter, happiness and beauty are always recorded. I am willing to use the camera to store every moment.