Recently, in Zhoukou, Henan, a lady Ma performed a smooth, straightforward and handsome boxing technique during the parent meeting. This not only won the applause of the parents present, but also caused heated discussions among netizens. Some said, "Now her child is going to be the eldest." Some said, "Now I need some talent to participate in the parent conference. It's really amazing!" According to Ms. Ma, because of the martial arts in elementary school for a few years, the class The teacher has watched the small videos she usually shoots, so she invited her to perform at the parent meeting, hoping to encourage everyone to take active exercises and have a healthy and strong body.
From small to large, it is not uncommon for parents to ask their children to perform talent shows at various banquets or events, and it is extremely rare for parents to perform talent shows for their children. Due to the age gap and ideological inequality, parents and children who are obviously closest to each other, in fact, sometimes do not know each other sufficiently. Ask the children "What is your father's specialty?" "Does your mother have any talents?" I believe that few children can say it directly.
On the contrary, children can't help but compare their parents with the parents of their classmates. Just as parents always think that other people’s children are better than their own children, children may also think that their classmate’s parents are better than their own. There is nothing outstanding about parents. The reason behind this is actually insufficient communication and insufficient understanding between parents and children.
01, parents are more talented than we thought, each with their own unique skills!
Chinese people always pay attention to self-effacement and retention, that is, they will not praise themselves unlimitedly, and they will not show all the cards. The same is true for children. I believe that few parents talk about their talents all day long and show off to their children endlessly, so many times the bright spots of parents are discovered and realized by the children themselves.
Take me as an example. When I participated in the parent-teacher meeting in elementary school, my mother finally came on stage to perform a dance. It really threw me and my little partner in minutes. I really didn’t expect my mother to dance. Later, I learned that my mother started to learn to dance when she was a child, but later on, some things were delayed, and now she stopped dancing. But at that time, I did get a wave of envy from my friends, and I felt that I was super competent and had such a powerful mother!
In addition, the parents struggled in the industry due to work reasons, in fact, they also developed all kinds of talents and tricks. Parents engaged in police work must be absolutely unique in their logical reasoning and investigative abilities. Don’t try to lie in front of them; parents who work as teachers usually have first-rate copywriting and writing skills, and every parent submission must be easy to take care of; those engaged in fitness work Needless to say, the physical fitness of the parents is naturally easy to win the Grand Slam of the parent-child sports games.
Our parents are really more talented and outstanding than we thought, so don't underestimate your parents, maybe they will show you a hand soon?
02. Parents share talents, the purpose is to encourage children to pay attention to exercise and health
, while the purpose of parents sharing talents is to encourage children to exercise and pay attention to their own health. The body is the capital of the revolution, but there are too many children's entertainment projects now, and the children's self-control is poor, so they can't help playing mobile phones and watching TV. Naturally, health is not optimistic over time. The child of
colleague’s family had poor eyesight, but the little boy was too eager to play, and the abrupt parents went to play games and watch TV secretly without watching. The parents of
have said so many times, but they are of no use, what should be done, and the eyesight is getting worse. Later, I was too anxious, so I found someone to give me a trick. If the child doesn’t like to play games, then take him to play games. The father of the child takes the child to play shooting games, and the child is not allowed to wear glasses to play, saying that he has recoil. Hit the lens, and then PK with the child to see who can shoot accurately. The child's eyesight is not as good as that of his father. Naturally, he is not as good as his father. At this time, father said that you usually play so many games and you can't compare to me. As a result, the child develops the habit of protecting his eyesight, and waits for his eyesight to be raised, and then he will come back to fight his father again.
The original intention of parents to share their talents is actually that they hope their children can pay more attention to certain aspects, so there is no need to worry that their children will be proud and complacent because of their parents’ excellence.As long as they are properly guided, children can use their parents as an example, learn from their parents, and then promote self-improvement and development.
03. Parents are not as good as their own behavioral models. In the final analysis, children are a mirror of parents. Every word, deed, and every action of parents will affect their children in subtle ways, thereby shaping their character and personality. Develop an impact. Therefore, rather than telling their children thousands of times, parents should take their own behavior as a model and lead by example.
The famous swimmer Olympic champion Tian Liang is gentle and gentle. Wherever he goes, he can see that he is a patient who listens to his children, and his daughter Sendie is perfectly inherited from his father’s good figure and long legs. He also loves sports. Running, archery, and horseback riding can be regarded as a proper sports genius. In the photos posted on Weibo, it can also be seen that every time Sendie is doing outdoor sports, he is always next to him. Arita Ryo's figure. The company of parents is the strongest backing for children when they move forward, and it is the foundation for shaping and developing children's character.
I recently read a post posted by a friend in Moments, and I also felt quite a bit. My friend always sleeps in class because the child is addicted to games. The teacher reminds him to talk to the child and ask about the situation, but the child says you still say me. You are not there yet. Holding a mobile phone at night, playing mahjong outside at night. Suddenly he was dumbfounded, not knowing what to say.
We all know that parents can set a good example for their children, but they can also bring a bad example.
When asking your child to do things that are "good for him", you can first think about whether you have done it. If you can't do it so hard to ask the child to do it, it is bound to make the child have a kind of psychological imbalance Feeling, even if you do it, you are unwilling to be forced to do it.
So if you want your children to play less on mobile phones, start by playing less by yourself. If you want to let your children exercise more, then do more outdoor sports by yourself. After a long time, even if you don’t ask your children to be with yourself, your children will see these good things. The good changes brought about by habits will also take the initiative to ask to be with parents.
Family education is the foundation of a child’s growth, so if you want a child to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix, you must first do the proper family education. And if you want your children to develop good habits, you must first develop such habits and lead by example.
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