originally wanted to post a photo of my son blowing clarinet, but after thinking about it, forget it;
nanny must be proficient in English and French, with a good understanding of Chinese and Western cuisine, and the salary of 25,000 is just a base;
can only buy 18k gold for 70,000 Glasses, straight men like to send pink Maserati.
Are these words "stalks"? These words are from the Weibo of "Master of Versailles Literature" @蒙淇淇77.
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The origin of Versailles literature
Versailles literature is a kind of "literary system" created by @小奶球老师 on the background of "The Rose of Versailles" on Weibo @小奶球. The "literary system" of
often appears on social platforms, through a reverse description, which inadvertently reflects superior life behavior.
So what is "Versailles Literature"?
Versailles literature is abbreviated as "Fan Xue", which is a representative word for pretending to complain but showing off.
in a nutshell: Use the lowest-key way to expose the most noble and luxurious sense of superiority.
If you want to understand the literature of Versailles in a true sense, please keep in mind the three elements:
·························································· The audience creates an audience and creates an atmosphere of being noticed);
· Flexible use of the third-person perspective (praising yourself with the help of others is more advanced).
After understanding the basic knowledge points, carefully interpret the application of Fanxue in life.
Interpretation about the child
:
learned from Xiao Huangmao that the child is a primary school student in Beijing, and he went home and went upstairs to find his mother.
About marriage
Interpretation: When
sleeps with her husband, learn wine knowledge and have a French meal with her husband tomorrow.
Interpretation of the house
:
Versailles is that when you are inconvenient to show off directly, you might as well use the third person, from the home of a building in Hangzhou to the home of a big villa in Beijing, and speak out by others.
About the nanny
Interpretation:
nanny is a young girl, undergraduate, English level six, younger than the old aunt of others. The monthly salary of 25,000 indicates that the family is wealthy. Staring at your husband always shows that her husband is good-looking and attractive.
After learning to interpret, where is Versailles literature most common?
In the parent circle, in order to show the baby of a higher level, these parents chose a more low-key packaging method: "Fan Xue".
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Fan Xue competition in the parent circle
In fact, the "originator" of Versailles literature comes from the parents.
They are all over the circle of friends, parent groups, and daily conversations, in order to compare who treats their children better.
After all, in their eyes, what can be more worthy of showing off than "the excellence of the baby"? The children of
living in "Versailles Literature" are still familiar, and they are really like "children from other people's family" by savoring them carefully.
These children basically don’t need to worry about their parents. They take care of themselves, are self-conscious and sensible. They have perfect scores in academic performance. The walls of their homes are covered with various awards, and they can easily be admitted to prestigious schools...
The parents’ true meaning of "Fanxue" can be seen between the lines, and this will not affect their show off and praise to their children.
has a fundamental difference between showing off and exaggerating a child. If you are not careful, a child becomes a tool person, which is not the result of love.
Qualified parents give love education; sane parents never show off their children.
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Education does not require Versailles literature
Gu Jia in "Thirty Only", in order to give his children the best educational resources, he used a loan to buy a large mansion in Shanghai, because this community has the best teachers and students in ShanghaiResources.
In order for the child to pass the interview smoothly, Gu Jia made sufficient preparations:
neatly bound the child's daily tasks, proved the child's talents, and used his professional English to block all doubts from the teacher.
In fact, TV dramas also reflect reality. Many Chinese parents have educational anxiety. Behind this is a sense of anxiety that cannot be ignored.
When facing such anxiety, Chinese parents often do not bring good results. They will choose to report too many interest classes and homework to their children.
However, what parents do will result in the need to spend more energy and time to work to make money.
As a result, parents spend less and less time with their children, and the children will most likely be overwhelmed by excessive pressure and academic work.
At the same time, the more anxious the parents are that they will continue to raise their children's requirements to a certain extent, and they have already calculated the results brought by the efforts while paying for the children.
If these expectations are not met, parents will be disappointed and pass on their negative emotions to their children. If things go on like this, children’s self-confidence will be severely hit or even destroyed.
On the road of educating people, less show off, more care;
less comparison, more company;
less competition, more encouragement, parents and children will gain more happiness.
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