training class who would cry loudly at any time. If the parents weren't watching, they would have thought that the child was scolded by the teacher.
On the contrary, some children are particularly strong inside. Even if the teacher says something, these children rarely use crying to express emotions and solve problems. They will look at things in a more ideal state and handle their own behavior.
How it looks like, this kind of child who doesn’t cry is quite amazing. But some people say that it is good for children to cry, not only vent their emotions, but also gain more attention.
So, should children like to cry when they encounter something, or shouldn’t? In fact, there is no need to preach, just look at the differences between these two children when they grow up.
The first aspect: emotional management ability
The children who have cried since childhood handle their emotions relatively better after adulthood, because the early crying process is actually a process to help children relieve stress. Many irritable and sad emotions may slowly evacuate in the crying, which is more conducive to the emotional repair of children.
And those children who can resist crying instead suppress bad emotions in their hearts. It seems that children are so strong that they are heartbreaking, but in fact, this is a kind of torture. They are suppressed in the hearts of children for a long time. As they age, they will encounter more and more problems and pressures, and at this time they may collapse because of this.
The second aspect: empathy aspect
Crying children are actually more empathetic because they know how to think from the perspective of others, understand others, and are more willing to think about problems from the perspective of others, and do not cry because they cannot face themselves, so they cannot face others easily.
The third aspect: psychological endurance
Although children usually cry, when they encounter problems, their tolerance is stronger. They have a much smaller feeling of pain. However, children who don’t cry often endure it and dare not express themselves casually, so they are more sensitive. It is difficult for them to experience love in love, so their psychological quality and tolerance are obviously very low.
It can be seen that it is not a bad thing for children to cry. Parents should comfort the crying baby well, protect their self-esteem, and let them learn to use other scientific and correct methods to replace crying, express emotions.
Specific methods, parents can refer to the following points:
1. Give your child enough time to cry
When the child is crying, parents should not leave, and there is no need to talk too much. Just stay by the child quietly, let him cry out all the grievances in his heart.
2. Give children inner strength
When children cry, if their bodies rely on them, we simply hug her, pat their backs, gently stroke and caress their arms, giving children strong inner strength, rather than rudely pushing away or verbal violence to the children.
3. Give them appropriate help
Children are still young and need help from parents. If the child does not get the understanding and help from his parents, how can he grow up healthily if he blindly suppresses his children? Therefore, parents must learn scientific methods and explore and find the direction of their children's future development in accordance with their own growth methods.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
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