is full of mother-son love, but in fact it is not the case. What kind of relationship does the child have with you depend on who raised the child.
Some children really don’t kiss their biological mothers, usually because they were not with their parents when they were young. Some parents cannot stay with their children because they have to go out to make money or other reasons. In addition, the elderly at home prefer their children, so the focus of their children's love shifts to the elderly, which will naturally make their mothers and fathers feel a little unfamiliar.
Although as the children grow up, they will return to their parents, they still love their parents in their hearts. However, because they are not together for a long time, it is difficult to find the feeling of falling in love with their parents. Therefore, their emotions will remain on the elderly who have been with them at home. Therefore, when you are a mother, don’t be too optimistic, thinking that your child is still young, and you will get the love your child has for your mother no matter when you return to your child.
However, some parents do out of helplessness, and they cannot stay with their children at all times. That doesn't matter, we can do this and greatly improve the parent-child relationship between ourselves and our children.
1. Division of labor with the elderly to take care of children
If some parents are busy with work, they can leave the children to the elderly to take care of them, but it is best to take responsibility for raising children after we get off work. This way, not only can the elderly get a rest, but they can also connect the parent-child relationship with their children, and also assume their responsibilities as parents.
Even if you go home late, you are not afraid. Have a meal with your child, or tell a story to your child before going to bed, etc. Children generally cherish these intimate but short-term relationships, and high-quality companionship is more in line with the child's psychological development.
2. Don’t be too relaxed as a parent
Nowadays, young people always want to play, but as a result, after the child is born, they are completely delivered to the elderly. The couple is so happy to entertain themselves. The result of this is that you are very chic, but your child does not enjoy the intimate time between childhood and parents that he should enjoy. However, the most irreplaceable thing in this world is the mother's emotions. Therefore, since you became a mother, you are no longer fighting alone. You must shoulder the responsibilities you deserve, cultivate your children well, be with them more, and cherish every happy time you are with them. This will greatly avoid the situation where the child is not close to you when he grows up.
3. Ensure that the elderly who take care of children have a correct view
Some children are indeed raised by the elderly, but their mothers have never been absent, but the children still do not have a close relationship with their mothers. This situation is mostly related to the elderly’s three views. Some children don’t like their daughter-in-law, so they often slander their mothers in front of their children, destroying the image of their mothers in their minds. Therefore, when we mothers help the elderly who take care of their children, we must be aware of it and carefully examine it.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
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