In the era of smartphones, almost everyone has become a "head-down man", and children and teenagers are no exception.
"Report on the Time of Contact with Electronic Screens" released by the World Health Organization pointed out:
- Excessive addiction to electronic products endangeres children's physical and mental health;
- Children of different ages should take different intervention measures.
How do parents guide their children to play with their mobile phones less?
-3 years old: Try not to let children touch their mobile phones
Children's retina cannot develop until they are 12 years old. Before this, try to avoid contact with mobile phone electronic products. What parents do at this stage:
- Parents interact with their children more often, try not to play with their phones in front of their children, and turn their attention to other toys.
- If the child is curious about his mobile phone, he can demonstrate basic functions such as calling and sending voice to the child.
- Parents’ family members try to delete games, videos and other apps that will attract children.
- If children are making fun of playing, they can watch some puzzle cartoons and learning software;
- actively cultivate children's reading habits and read children's books with their children more.
- Take your children out to play more and enrich their life experiences.
Children in the rebellious period. The more parents use oppressive methods to manage, the more children want to play. Parents’ approach at this stage:
- Try to understand the child’s feelings and positions, emphasizing that mobile phones can be played, but learning is preferred;
- negotiate with the child to specify the duration and number of times to play the mobile phone. If there is any violation, you may be punished such as "not allowed to use your mobile phone on the same day".
2-18 years old: Appropriate intervention and guide children to use mobile phones reasonably
Children have certain self-control and self-management abilities, and parents can guide their children to reasonably plan their study and entertainment time. Parents' approach at this stage:
- pay attention to the changes in children's psychological and behaviors, and give children some personal space;
- negotiate to formulate rules for mobile phone use, so that children can balance entertainment and learning on their own;
- guides children to make rational use of the positive effects of mobile phones and maximize the learning effect of mobile phones.
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Many parents know that it is easy to solve for young children to play with their mobile phones, and they can divert their attention in a short time. Older children who go to high school have a certain degree of self-control and can relatively get out of the trap of addiction. The most difficult thing is that children who are in elementary and junior high school cannot stop playing with their mobile phones.
How can parents remotely control their children to play with their mobile phones?
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[Control the duration of playing with the phone]
Parents can remotely control their children's mobile phones. They do not need to force their children's mobile phones to take away. They only need to remotely set the duration of their children's mobile phones in the Maimiao Guardian APP.
[View children's mobile phone dynamics]
Parents can also take traceless remote screenshots of their children's mobile phones to view the live screen of their children's mobile phones. You can see what the children are playing, who they are chatting with, and what they are talking about at a glance.
Of course, parents should also set an example, try not to play with their children as much as possible, and set a correct example.