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National Day holiday is about to pass halfway. How can parents use the rest of their time to spend a wonderful and meaningful holiday with their children? Here are three suggestions:
1. Complete homework efficiently
First, encourage children to formulate plans to complete homework efficiently, and strictly implement them, and develop the good habit of completing homework in one go, completing homework first and then playing. This will also create more space for yourself to relax and create more time to do what you like. Of course, you should also pay attention to adjusting your mentality, not regarding homework as a burden, but as a kind of tempering, consolidation and improvement of your own mind, habits, and studies.
2. Create a home environment
After completing the homework in one go, if you don’t have a clear travel plan, you can take your child to clean the environment at home first. Strive to keep the house clean and everything in order.
Then you can think about it: Should you take a step further and create a better environment? For example: Should I add a pot of green plants in this corner? Should the wall be decorated with a painting and calligraphy work? Should I open a new classic bookshelf, family teahouse, fitness corner or calligraphy and painting desk?
Let us imagine: let every family member live at home, and can feel and be influenced by a simple, orderly, elegant and beautiful, free and relaxed, pure and noble energy and information. We can treat this home not only as a material place to maintain survival, but also as a spiritual home created by the whole family through sweat and wisdom, and is a spiritual home that is created by the whole family in which the basic consensus and common emotions of the whole family are gathered everywhere... How beautiful and worth doing is this?
This will also help every family member loves this home more from the bottom of his heart. Whenever he has time, he will miss this home, and will be eager to go back to this home early, and will be willing to stay in this home as much as possible. A family with innocent and passionate love flows can naturally nourish the innocent, pure and kind children and beautiful virtues.
3. Carry out family activities
Seven days off the National Day holiday, the whole family is on holiday, only once a year, and it is not as busy as the New Year holiday. It is indeed a rare opportunity to cultivate parent-child relationships and improve parent-child relationships. It is a pity to miss it easily. Therefore, it is recommended that everyone spend more time and thoughts, design more parent-child activities with elegant connotations and rich forms, and participate together with the whole family. Below I recommend three types of family activities -
(1) Outdoor Tour
The first recommended form of activities is of course to make full use of such long holidays to go out outdoors, climb mountains and wading, stretch your body and mind, broaden your mind, and broaden your experiences. Parents can check information with their children, discuss and research together, and choose a scenic spot that is not too far from their location, with good historical and cultural resources and natural environment, and do an outdoor study tour together.
Parents have more time, so they can go farther; parents have less time, even half a day, and it is very good to just walk around the park near the community.
emphasizes this point especially because she communicated with a parent today and found out that her original plan was not considered taking her children out for outdoor trips. Yes, she didn't even think about it for a long time. Under my solemn suggestion, and her child himself had to write a long holiday diary, the parent quickly adjusted the arrangements.
Then just after class at noon, I found another parent left a message to ask me to do homework with her child. The parent said last week that her child could only take one or two days off during the National Day holiday, and he had to learn to make up for the rest of the time...
So I strongly suggest again: Although there are reasons and it is understandable, no matter what, let us try our best to bring our children to nature to get close to each other. Even if it only has half a day on a weekend, even if it only has half a day on a seven-day holiday.Children need sunshine and breeze, collect autumn leaves, embrace big trees, run as much as possible, lying on the lawn and sing leisurely to the blue sky and white clouds, sing by the river, and go on a field trip and experience the heroes and talents and beautiful men and women outside the books in three-dimensional way...
Parents should do more homework, check some relevant information in advance, and then guide their children to fully mobilize their facial features to observe and experience the world during study tours, and experience the beauty, uniqueness and even magical aspects of nature. More new observations, new discoveries, new experiences, new insights or new questions. You can also discuss and debate with your children, inspire each other, create beautiful poems and essays, and freeze the harvest of study tours.
(2) Reading Club
Create a learning family and create a family of books. It has always been the ideal state of family education that we advocate, and the positive direction of family style creation.
As for the specific way of carrying out the reading club, each member can share his experiences and insights from reading classic books recently, or recite wonderful clips of them that they think are particularly good and touched, and then everyone can communicate and discuss with each other.
can also design and carry out thematic poetry recitations, such as about natural beauty, about a certain place, about a person, about an animal or plant, about a certain personality cultivation, about a certain learning method, about a certain subject knowledge, etc.
(3) Other activities
You can also listen to a more elegant concert together, or hold a concert for family members at home, and learn to sing a few beautiful songs together. You can also organize a sports meeting for family members together, or perform a long-distance hiking and other exercises that break through the limits of physical and mental health. You can also go to a good exhibition together, or watch a movie or documentary that is helpful to people, or make a table of food together...
In short, there are actually many activities. The key is to open your mind, think more, and pay more attention to it, and you will definitely have a continuous stream of wonderful ideas.
Finally, I wish you all the remaining days of vacation to have a more exciting and fulfilling life and a lot of rewards!
2022.10.3
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