A mother of a child said that she dared not teach her children to be honest and honest, and even dared not teach her children to be kind. She said that the couple had been educated by their parents since childhood to be honest and honest people, and they encountered walls everywh

A mother of a child said that she dared not teach her children to be honest and honest, and even dared not teach her children to be kind people. She said that the couple had been educated by their parents since childhood to be honest and honest people, and they encountered walls everywhere when they went to society and suffered losses everywhere.

—Do you want to educate your children to be honest people?

Chen Danqing said: "If you don't have a background and choose to be a good person, you will almost certainly fall into the bottom of society. Even if you are talented, even if you have insightful opinions, the sieve of society will sieve you. The more you follow the rules, be upright, and kind-hearted, the more likely you are to be eliminated, and all your strengths will become a disadvantage in the competition."

- Do you want to educate your children to be a good person?

As the child grows up, as a father, I have always been confused: I want to educate him to have correct views, I want to cultivate him to have independent ideas, but I am worried that he will be excluded and cannot integrate into society and the collective.

—Do you want to educate your children to have independent thinking?

"Free thoughts, inclusive and inclusive", how many free thoughts are there in current education?

"A teacher with high learning is the model." How many noble normal schools still have in today's schools?

"The greatness of a university lies in its masters." How many real masters are there in today's universities?

—Do you want your children to receive such education?

When you see the "'Young Master Zhou" and the "Young Master Wang" easily lie down and win the mood. . . When I meet "'My dad is Li Gang', I am arrogant and domineering. . .

—Do you want to encourage your children to fight?

The fairy tale world is beautiful, and the real world is messy.

In 2017, an 80-year-old man lived alone in Nanjing was discovered only two months after he died at home. She left a suicide note -

- Should I tell my children the truth about the world?

How should we educate our children? ? ?