Now, due to various factors, many young people are either unwilling to get married or unwilling to have children. No matter which phenomenon it is, it has a great impact on the fertility rate of newborns in our country. Although we know that these phenomena are extremely unfavora

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2025-04-19

Now, due to various factors, many young people are either unwilling to get married or unwilling to have children. No matter which phenomenon it is, it has a great impact on the fertility rate of newborns in our country. Although we know that these phenomena are extremely unfavorable to the future development of the country, it is not easy for the country to interfere for coercively. After all, now is an era of advocating freedom. If the state intervenes for coercively, it may backfire. At that time, not only will the fertility problem not be solved, but it may also cause unexpected trouble.

There are also two types of women who do not have children. One is because of physical reasons, and they cannot have children. The other is that everything is normal in physical condition, that is, in the subjective sense, you don’t want to have children. This situation is usually called "dink ". The group of people who choose DINK is a relatively special group. They don’t have children because they can’t afford it, they just don’t want to lose their freedom in life because of having children. This is their choice. Although we do not agree, we have no right to interfere.

However, some couples who choose "DINK" sometimes get pregnant due to some accidents. When a "Dink" woman becomes pregnant, her thinking often changes 180 degrees. In fact, it is not only this type of woman, but it can be said that 90% of women will become full of maternal love after pregnancy. Many women choose "DINK" mainly because they have not experienced the joy of being a mother. Recently, a similar case was exposed online. Dink's woman became pregnant unexpectedly, and her family's reaction made her cry when she learned about it. What's going on? Let’s take a look at the details below.

It is understood that in Heilongjiang Province, there is a woman who is born to like freedom and does not like to be bound by some rules and regulations. The traditional idea of women taking care of their husbands and raising their children is even more disagreeable with women. Because of this, the woman also found someone with the same idea when looking for her boyfriend, and the two got married in the end. At the beginning, the couple traveled and relaxed in their spare time, and they were very happy, without the pressure of post-marriage for other couples. The two of them neither have to have children nor raise children, and they really look very happy. More importantly, the woman also convinced her family to agree to be a "DINK".

However, man's calculations are not as good as God's calculations. Later, something happened that directly caused the woman to change her mind. A woman who had been "DINK" for several years suddenly became pregnant. This incident made the woman not relieved for a while. However, after thinking about it for a long time, the woman slowly accepted this fact. What surprised her was that she no longer had the same disgust as before for pregnancy. On the contrary, after an unexpected pregnancy, she found that she was getting more and more happy and had an inexplicable expectation.

After 6 months of pregnancy, this woman finally figured it out that she was no longer a "DINK". I changed from "Dink" to a mother who wants children. The woman didn't tell her family about her pregnancy at first. At the beginning, only my husband and I knew about this matter, but in the end the woman decided to keep the child. So, during the National Day, when the whole family had a dinner together, she took out her own prenatal check-up form and handed it to her in-laws to see. When the parents-in-law took the prenatal examination form and looked confused, the other family members also surrounded him and came to see it. When everyone learned that the woman was pregnant, the whole family immediately became excited.

After being happy, the woman's mother-in-law said: Daughter-in-law, this really gave us a big surprise. This is the best gift for us. When the woman saw her family’s reaction, she knew that she had made the right choice this time. The woman is 34 years old this year, and her husband is 3 years older than him. When a woman was young, she did not think about being a mother, but as she got older, her thoughts gradually changed. I have to say that the woman is very lucky. If she had not figured it out until she was in her 40s, she would probably have no choice but to want a child by then.

Many netizens also sincerely wish the woman and are happy for her when she sees this. Many people may never understand what the "Dink" clan is thinking.In fact, "Dink" is just a thought of a woman at a certain stage in her life. People are complex and changeable, and a person’s ideas at a certain stage are not static. Perhaps a woman does not want children when she is young, but when she reaches middle age or old age, she will be very eager to have children. If this is true, it will be too late to regret it by then.

Women are different from men. The fertility period of women is very short. After they are in their 40s, it will be difficult to have a child without children. However, men are different. When middle-aged and elderly people are still able to have fertility. Therefore, when it comes to things like "DINK", women must think carefully and not be "DINK" just because of impulse. In the matter of "Dink", men have medicine to take, but women don't. After passing the childbearing age, it is useless to want to go back on your word. #Dink woman got pregnant unexpectedly, and her family's reaction made her cry # #Strange Case Detective Season 1# #Social Various Objects#