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A few days ago, the Ministry of Education announced the "List of National Competition Activities for Primary and Secondary School Students in 2022-2025" , with a total of 44 competitions on the list. In principle, the finalists will be held from September 2022 to August 2025. During this period, the total will not be held more than once per academic year, and the total will not be more than 3 times. The results of the competition and the results produced by the competition shall not be used as the basis for enrollment of primary and secondary schools and as bonus items for college entrance examinations.
Recently, it was found that some institutions have recruited " family education instructor " under the banner of high salaries to carry out training activities for primary and secondary school students, seriously disrupting the order of the training market, misleading the public, and harming the interests of the people. To this end, the Ministry of Education’s Off-campus Education and Training Supervision Department, the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security’s Vocational Capacity Building Department, and the All-China Women’s Federation’s Family and Children’s Work Department jointly reminded that the family education guidance service is adults, and carrying out various training activities for primary and secondary school students under the name of “ family education guidance” is a violation.
Our education has been using a "competition" method to start children's motivation for learning and growth . Once they lose competition, they lose this motivation. Moreover, this kind of power is external power, not internal power.
What is the motivation for students to return to internal motivation? We must to make the entire learning process "interesting, meaningful, and possible" .
But the current curriculum logic and teaching logic, from a global perspective, are basically from knowledge, skills, subjects, and then to problems. We have to do a disruption, start with the problem, and then find the discipline and find the knowledge based on it. In the process of responding to challenges and solving problems, we not only find the subject and knowledge, but more importantly, we have found a way of thinking and method to integrate knowledge and solve problems.
There is no child in the world who does not lie. It is a necessary process on the road of children's growth. The most important thing about is to see how parents respond to . If you do it right, you can easily gain an honest child.
Unfortunately, after children lie, many first reactions are to link this behavior to the quality of children . The most common ones are: "You are not a good child", "You are a lying sperm", "It's okay to grow up."
In fact, these are all over-reactions to lies. How can parents do it so that their children can learn to be truly honest?
. Find out the psychological needs behind children’s lying.
. Give children room to think and confess.
2 Young people with high education gathered together and claimed to be waste. This is a true portrayal of the "985 Waste Introduction Plan" group of Douban . These "proud sons of heaven" have been raised by their parents since childhood, and have received a lot of attention and praise, but have not moved to the (expected) successful person's path, and are still suffering in their hearts.
In the eyes of most people, compared with those children who have been abused or neglected by their parents, children who received more attention and praise as children should be more confident, braver, and have a stronger motivation to achieve.
But in fact, some inappropriate praise of has more negative impacts on children. is what is often called "praise and kill". Children who are praised and grown up rely heavily on "good" evaluations from the outside world, and both of them are uncertain, which leads to their lack of stable sense of self-worth in . seems narcissistic, but in fact it is fragile.
If you want to get rid of the impact of inappropriate praise, the key to is to be able to cut off exogenous self-worth and establish an endogenous sense of self-worth. In short, hand over the power to define yourself to yourself.
Special reminder: The normal stage of epidemic prevention and control, please take good self-protection, wear a mask, wash your hands frequently, develop the good habit of "one-meter line", and maintain social distance.
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