Today I will teach you three ways to reward children
Parents, have you found a question like this: many children think from the bottom of their hearts that learning is for their parents, why is this? In fact, the reason is that parents use the wrong reward method. For example: After the exam, I will buy you a new toy, and after finishing my homework, I will give you an candied haws , etc. These wrong reward methods will make the child feel that he is learning for his parents, and the reason why he is learning is to get rewards.
So, today I will teach you three tips for rewarding children, which can not only help children overcome their fear of difficulties, but also cultivate their internal motivation. This is the correct reward method:
First, there is no need for rewards for things that the child is interested in, because he enjoys this thing and has already rewarded himself in his heart. We only need to recognize him and encourage him.
Second, for things that children are not interested in, such as children do not like writing, but they must practice calligraphy in elementary school, so we can use the reward method from the outside to the inside, and first use external rewards. Overcome the fear of difficulties for him and make him willing to start. For example, writing every day can satisfy your small wish for five consecutive days, and then convert external rewards into internal rewards. After he writes for a few days, he can ask him to write couplets at home, greeting cards for teachers, birthday cards for classmates, etc., and then praise his words, and write them more and more beautifully.
3. Everyone likes your words very much, so that they feel the sense of value and achievement. Then, after he is interested, he gradually withdraws the external rewards, and then uses the first skill to continue to encourage him so that he can persist. Have you learned it?
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