Finally finished reading "Be the right lazy parents and raise a worry-free baby". Although the title of this book is a bit ordinary title party, it is indeed a book written by the serious associate professor of sociology at Fudan Shanghai - Shen Yifei . However, she is very good at falling in love, hahaha (a bit of gossip).
Because my child was in the first grade this year, he wanted to learn some knowledge about parenting. The old saying goes, "The unity of knowledge and action." I think that only when you change your cognitive actions will you keep up slowly. Therefore, you can make cognitive reserves before doing something. This book is very suitable for me - a parent of a primary school student. In the first chapter of the book, we tell us why parents who urge and correct mistakes lay thunder for their children's future - it is easy to do things without driving force, life is boring and uninterested.
So if parents do not urge and correct mistakes, is there any better way to raise and educate our children? So she proposed a better way - the method of cumulative education of advantages.
The concept of this educational method is that children will never have any advantages and disadvantages, only their characteristics. In specific scenarios, their characteristics may be advantages or disadvantages. For example: not afraid of difficulties and difficulties, they will continue to overcome levels (disadvantages) when playing games, and they will persevere in doing homework. Therefore, parents should continue to appreciate their children's characteristics in the correct scenario, so that they can constantly create miracles. Then she also mentioned that 80% of the problems arise in the child were not problems, and 20% of them were turned into skill training through skills. For example, the author found that it was difficult for children to fall asleep because it was difficult for children to calm down, so he turned the problem of difficulty falling asleep into that the child could count 200 quietly in bed. After reading this example, I felt it was really wonderful.
She also proposed to use games to turn education from "you should" to "I do". The example is that if a child learns to swim and is unwilling to practice holding his breath in the water, some coaches forcefully press the child's head into the water, and some coaches throw toys underwater and let the child practice holding his breath with a game mentality, then the child's mentality and effect will definitely be self-evident. Moreover, gamified education can not only educate children and stimulate their motivation, but also promote the integration of parent-child relationships, making parents and children full of love and happiness. A good relationship brings better influence, and can raise children who love themselves and love life more.
The above is the general content of this book. This book is a surprise and a treasure for me. There are many ways to help parents solve the problems encountered in parenting. If you are interested, it will definitely not lose money! # Parenting Knowledge # Parenting
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