A child of seven or eight years old is the key to life. There are many magical instruments in my mind that I want to tell you, first, targeting the mistakes we make, and picking up important ones.
7, 8-year-old children, the brain's sensitive period
7 years old, the number of synaptic in children's brain reaches its peak, and they start pruning at the age of 8. Pruning is like building a road, and it is the process of establishing a connection between ideas. In this process, synapses will decrease, but ideas will speed up, and the structure and functions formed by the strengthening of experience will become stronger and stronger.
The most important thing to pay attention to in this process is to protect children's curiosity, cultivate interest in learning, and improve their ability to actively learn through methods that suit you. Since the brain is responsible for pressure and learning, the pressure of is too high and the mood is not good, and the learning ability will fade, and suppression will definitely make the child stupid.
The brain is a major energy consumer, supplementing more fatty acids and amino acids . Eat less sweets and children have poor concentration, which is actually due to poor brain stability, and brain stability depends on whether the blood sugar concentration is stable.
The development of good habits
The brain development process is: occipital lobe -temporal lobe-parietal lobe-frontal lobe, and the part of the frontal lobe responsible for controlling is finally mature. Parents and teachers often worry that their children develop bad habits. The development of habits is composed of "motivation + ability + environmental prompts". Children mainly need to improve their control over things. parents can actually do two things: one is to construct a friendly environmental prompt; the other is to help them break down and simplify the difficult things . For example, if complex characters become radicals, it is easy to get started by writing them one by one. To maintain these three factors, time is the assistant, but if there are these three points, time is the resistance.
Whether a child at this stage can change his bad habits depends mainly on his evaluation of himself . If he thinks he is good, he will work towards an excellent direction, but if he thinks he is a bad child, he is likely to lose his mind. Here, the parents of have a very influential comments, and it is easy to have a counterproductive effect if they give up fake large open spaces.
Emotions and consciousness
7, 8 years old is when children’s self-consciousness is budding, and they realize the existence of themselves - this is an important sign for people to become human. This is an important time to recognize yourself and understand yourself, and it is also an important time to form a positive, optimistic and confident attitude towards life.
Our children may compare their imagined self with their real self, which will make the real self hit. We need to help children understand themselves comprehensively, see their own strengths, see their growth, and see the relationship between cooperation and mutual help.
People's growth is a process from dependence, independence, and mutual assistance.
Children's self-awareness will inevitably lead to self-centering. Many people think that independence is selfish and opposite to responsibility when they live until they are old. Actually, this is not the case. This is a growth process from childhood to adulthood. Self-centeredness is the beginning of independence and the germination of responsibility. , on the one hand, should guide the child to be responsible for his behavior, and on the other hand, he should use his performance to contribute to the collective. Let the ego achieve the greater self and become the greater self.
Only people who are not independent enough will feel that others should do this and that. Be responsible for your emotions and your own happiness.
basic needs must be met, a happy childhood can heal for a lifetime
If the biggest need of a three-year-old child is a sense of security, what a seven-year-old child needs most is a sense of control, or a sense of value. If these basic needs are not met, he will pursue them all his life. Moreover, if most people ask for them but cannot, these untreated things will penetrate into the subconscious mind, form and strengthen his beliefs, and direct his life.
has two kinds of pursuit of a sense of value. One is to seek outwardly. The external world cannot fill the emptiness of the heart. They see the world as split, pessimistic, even hostile. One is to seek inwardly. Parents should guide them to find subjective factors that affect the development of things, which can make our efforts controllable., what we see is what we choose to see, but we can choose to look at it in another way, see the positive side of the objective world, and use it to achieve ourselves. Such a child is brave enough to take responsibility and can assume his own responsibilities, and his life will not be too bad.
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