Our two children are currently in the eldest kindergarten, and the second kindergarten class. The following is my experience~
is just for me. When my eldest son first went to kindergarten, he cried every day when he got home, and kept saying not to go to kindergarten. Looking at her pitiful appearance, I believe she is really afraid of going to kindergarten from the bottom of her heart, but I think it will take only one week at most. Let her stick to it and get used to it in one week. However, my child has been afraid of people since he was a child and is particularly introverted and shy, so he cried for a week. When he saw the photos of the child in kindergarten taken by the teacher, he could see that he was full of tears. Almost every day, he was taken with tears.
is so pitiful, I feel sorry for
looks really pitiful, so I thought of a way to let her slowly transition for half a day.
After crying, the teacher took
Since the first half of the day, the child has been much happier and will not say that I don’t want to go to kindergarten every day. It has changed a lot. Gradually, she dared to participate in kindergarten activities. The photos posted by the teacher gradually smiled every day. I was really happy for the children and my decision~
so cute, haha
beautiful smiley
now my second child is in kindergarten. Starting from September 1, I have a fever after two days of going to school. After a few days of rest, I found that he was very resistant and scared. Even with his sister, he still talks about not going to kindergarten every day. As a result, after three days of treatment, I started vomiting and stomachache, and had a stomachache. I had food accumulation. I had no appetite for several days. It took me several days to clear my stomach before I slowly recovered. After recovering, I decided to let him slowly adapt to the kindergarten from half a day. As soon as he came home at noon, he could have a good meal and a good night's sleep in the afternoon. Sleeping is too important for children. Only by sleeping well can you avoid getting sick.
The second child has also changed a lot since the first half of the day. Before the first half of the day, I started crying every morning when I got up, and I resisted wearing clothes and shoes. I went out crying and cried all the way, and I finally calmed down when I got to the teacher. Starting from the first half of the day, it was getting better and better every day. I went out in the morning and put on my own shoes, and then I went out happily every day.
Today, I changed the most. I took the initiative to go to school for a day, and I was very happy. The child is happy, and the adults are relieved.
So I think if the child is not used to kindergarten at the beginning, don’t force him to go. It doesn’t mean that the child will adapt after crying for a week, but it is forcing the child to adapt, which is not good for the child. We must let our children take the initiative to accept kindergartens, reduce the psychological pressure on children, and get less sick and let children accept kindergartens faster!