Respecting teachers and elders, filial to parents, and caring for their children seems to have always been the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. As children of every Chinese nation, they need to follow such principles. After all, these people are the closest people aroun

Respect teachers, be filial to parents, and love children. It seems that they have always been traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. As the children of every Chinese nation, they need to follow such principles. After all, these people are the closest people around us. Also the most important person. And this is also a cultural heritage.

But with the development of the times, many things are quietly changing. In terms of filial piety to parents, an emerging term has also emerged, called filial piety in a row.

"Continuous filial piety" was staged secretly, and the children called it stressed, but their parents were still complacent!

What is contiguous filial piety? In fact, to put it bluntly, while being filial to your parents, you also have to be filial to your parents' brothers and sisters. If you want to buy some food and drink gifts for your parents during the holidays, then your parents' brothers and sisters cannot be left behind.

This phenomenon is still very widespread nowadays. As children, if you have a certain amount of savings when working for a certain amount of time, then this problem may be well solved. But if you are a student who has just graduated from college and entered the workplace, then this problem is very difficult. After all, you don’t have that much financial support to do these things.

As parents, they actually understand the situation of their children very well. I also know how much money my children can earn during work , but for the sake of my so-called face, I will still do like this. After all, only in this way can one's own children be more filial in the eyes of others.

In real life, things like this have actually happened to many people. A girl becomes the victim of filial piety in doing things. This girl's family is average. Through my own efforts, I found a relatively good job after graduating from college, but since it was just the beginning, my salary was not very high.

But he has always been an extremely filial girl. So if you earn some money, you will buy some food for your parents. After seeing his actions, both relatives, friends and neighbors cast a look of praise, praising him for being very filial, and his parents were also very proud in the process. After all, the children were educated by themselves.

But when the Chinese New Year is over, such a problem will arise. The parents asked him to buy more high-end gifts and visit his uncle's house during the Chinese New Year. Moreover, things cannot be too cheap. On the one hand, it is a manifestation of filial piety, and on the other hand, it will also make the whole family more face.

But this approach puts a lot of pressure on the girl, after all, there are many relatives. If each company spends a few hundred yuan, it will be a very large amount of money, and it is not easy for you to work hard to make money. But I can only do it with a tough time.

And we will find that such things happen more than one or two people. In real life, there are actually many such examples. seems that many people cannot escape the situation of filial piety in . So why does this happen?

First, in order to earn their own face, parents are forced to make such a choice. , especially for some rural families, their ideas are relatively outdated, so they care more about these things. In order to experience their children's filial piety and to make themselves more respectful among the many people, they will ask their children to do this.

Second, parents work hard to raise their children and think that there should be some reward. Whether it is because of face or the love of children for themselves, this is what children should do. Although this approach is stressful for your children, you will still choose.

, less companionship and communication. Children basically rarely stay with their parents after work, and they are basically far apart and can only be seen once a year. Therefore, many problems cannot be solved, and parents can only find some companionship and love in this way.

And we will also find out from it that this method is actually not advisable. The filial piety of all children cannot be expressed through these things, but can do their best to repay their parents. cannot be a weapon to compete with each other in the parent group.

so it is better to sit together and solve the problem instead of worrying about it. The most important way to solve the problem is to communicate more and communicate more. If you have time, you must accompany your parents more.

As parents grow older, they actually need more care and care. So if we are closer to work, we must go home to accompany our parents more often, but if we are far away, we also need to call our parents often. Even if we are chatting about family matters, they are very happy for them.

Most of the time, the practice is actually because there are misunderstandings between each other, or they don’t understand each other, so parents often don’t even understand the income of their children. In order not to worry about parents, the sons are not very good at talking about these things. Only benign communication can solve all problems.

Summary: I believe that every parent is for the good of their children. If you communicate more with each other, you will be more loving. Any problem will be solved, and even filial piety can be solved.