With the development of the times, the requirements for young people are getting higher and higher! The pressure of modern young people is getting stronger and stronger, and society is showing such a form. Either young people don’t get married, or young people feel stressed and d

With the development of the times, the requirements for young people are getting higher and higher! The pressure of modern young people is getting stronger and stronger, and society is showing such a form. Either young people don’t get married, or young people feel stressed and dare not have more children, which has caused the current trend of aging, especially in developed cities!

At present, I observed the forms around me and found that the reasons why young people are unwilling to have more children come from the following points: First, no one helps take care of the children after giving birth, which causes young mothers to lose the opportunity to work in the workplace. The family is under great pressure, and young people are overwhelmed by mortgages and car loans. When this happens, most people are still unwilling to have more children in order to survive. Second, children nowadays have been in the era of fighting for their fathers since they were born. From the moment they were born, parents have given their children too much hope, hoping that their children will have a place in society in the future and can make a name for themselves. Therefore, from a few months old, they have started to apply for early education and come into contact with various social experiences, enriching their children's vision and perceiving all kinds of society, so that their children have more knowledge and social survival. If you sign up for a special class, you will get an ordinary parent’s salary for one month, so young people are under great pressure. If there are many children, they are irresponsible for their children, so they are eugenic and good for parenting. Third, medical conditions are inconvenient. If you get sick at will, it will cost more than one thousand yuan. For people who do not have a fixed job, it may cost a couple a month to get sick. It is really impossible to afford it, not to be sick, or to be able to raise it.

Now the world is a serious aging trend. In Singapore , most elderly people do not have a certain amount of deposit before the age of 60, and the government will not provide guarantees. Therefore, most elderly people still insist on working to meet the government's requirements. Therefore, in most canteens, supermarkets and other public places in Singapore are elderly people, not college students. Similar countries are Thailand. Aging has attracted great attention from the government. Now many families have evolved from couples to " DINK Family ". More and more children live alone when they become adults and stay away from their parents. Correspondingly, supporting parents has become an important social responsibility, but Thailand advocates that support obligations should be borne by multiple parties, such as community, family and society.

When my child was 2 years old, I spent more than 8,000 to register for 60 early education classes for my child. On average, each class is still relatively expensive, so the family's expenses are still very high. Now the malls are for children to play, there are various amusement parks and various special classes, such as vocal music, dance, art, eloquence, calligraphy, Lego, Go, etc. There are all kinds of courses, but it has also increased the consumption of each household.

Currently, in our third-tier cities, ordinary people’s monthly salary is only three to four thousand,000, which is just enough for a child’s monthly tuition. In addition, during the epidemic, it is difficult to find a job, and the overall salary declines. Many companies go bankrupt, so it is lucky to be able to live.

However, now the country is fully open to having a third child. Because social progress requires young people, the society has introduced various policies to encourage young people to have more children and give corresponding welfare benefits, so that more children can go to school and treat diseases, so that society can be more stable and fully enter a well-off family.

In short, the age of having a third child was distributed among the post-80s. People in that era still advocated having more children and the population was prosperous. Many post-90s were first child or unwilling to get married, and children born in the 2000s enjoyed freely. Therefore, we must do our best to be ourselves and raise our children so that they can make certain contributions to the country in the future. This is the mission of being a parent.