Recently, a neighbor's child had just entered high school, but was told that he needed to take the child home temporarily. It turned out that my child lived in high school and was extremely erroneous in his words and deeds. As soon as the school teacher learned about it, he realized that the student had always been like this since childhood. He even had disagreements at home and even wanted to beat his parents. His request was not met and he threatened his parents by running away from home, and it has happened several times. He lives in high school and shows excessive words as soon as he enters the school, disobeys the teacher's teachings, and his whole body trembles and his face is ferocious when he is criticized. In order to consider their physical and mental health, the school teachers asked parents to take them home first. It is recommended to go to a professional institution to evaluate their physical condition and ensure that they are not bad before arranging to school for accommodation and study.
Neighbors complained that schools are originally a place to educate children. If you return the children to the family when there is a problem, then what should the school do?
The school also made it clear that it is true that the school is a place for education and teaching, but if the child is just a normal behavioral deviation, it can be improved, and it is the school that should assume its teaching responsibility. But the premise is that the child’s body and mind can withstand the school’s educational and teaching courses. If the child is physically and mentally unhealthy, especially mentally, he should first receive professional treatment, which is also a responsible attitude towards the child. Moreover, the school is a residential school, and it should also be responsible for his roommates. The school believes that there is nothing wrong with it in this way.
Education is not just a matter of the school. Children have relatively serious behavioral problems often largely be a family problem. Home and school need to cooperate to educate their children well.
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