Almost all parents will do their best to raise their children, hoping that their children can have a happy life in the future. For this reason, many parents are in a state of anxiety, worried that their children will not work as they expect now, and they will be extremely miserable in the future.
It is better to teach people how to fish than to teach people how to fish . What parents need to do is not to plan everything for their children and fill in the bumps on the road, but to become a guiding light on the children's life path, so that children will never lose their direction at any time.
In the process of a child's growth, I will tell the child the following sentences to help him face his future life better and to clearly move forward:
NO.1
Life is the most precious
Almost every year, some young lives can be seen leaving this world in extreme ways. Whenever this is the time, I want to tell you: life is the most precious, and nothing is more important than your life.
Sometimes you may encounter some difficulties, setbacks, grievances, and pressure, which may make you feel that life is difficult and even want to give up.
But you must remember: Only by living can you feel the beauty of this world; as long as you are alive, everything will still have hope.
Time is long, and time will smooth out the ravines that you cannot cross.
No matter how dark and helpless the days are, parents are the warmest sunshine behind you, always shining on you. You don’t have to be too outstanding or rich, but you must be safe. This is the greatest wish of your parents.
NO.2
You will not get everyone's recognition
Everyone wants to get affirmation and praise, this is human nature. But we don’t need to seek everyone’s recognition, because no one can get everyone’s recognition.
For most people, they will only see your appearance and cannot understand the real you.
Maybe someone will deny you because of your words; maybe someone will be jealous and slander you because of your excellence; maybe someone will comment on you for no reason.
But you have to remember that people should live for themselves. You work hard to make your life more exciting, not to get recognition from others.
Pay too much attention to others' evaluations and will only get lost in other people's words and lose your own direction in life.
There is no perfect person in the world, and no one can get everyone's affirmation. You just need to be honest and kind, have no guilt, and have no guilt to yourself.
NO.3
Don't stop learning
"My life is also limited, but knowledge is limited." In today's knowledge explosion, only by continuously learning new knowledge can we survive and adapt and will not be eliminated.
School education is not the whole of learning, it is just a part of learning, which can enable you to have the ability to learn and learning method .
The quality of academic performance is not the only criterion that determines the quality of your life, but it is the prerequisite for you to understand and see the world clearly.
Don’t be complacent because of your excellent grades now, don’t think you can stop studying after getting into college, and don’t deny yourself because your grades are not good for the time being.
Learning will accompany us throughout our lives. As long as you always maintain the enthusiasm for learning, you will definitely gain something and learn something. and these will give you the freedom to choose and make your life better.
NO.4
You must dare to make mistakes
Learning is a process of constant trial and error. Don’t dare to try because you are afraid.
A perfect life without making mistakes does not exist, making mistakes is the norm in life. It is precisely because we all make mistakes that the other end of the pencil is filled with an eraser.
Jobs said: "Never make mistakes means never really living."
From personal life experience to social progress, they all develop from mistakes one after another.
It is not scary to make mistakes, it is our way to make progress.
Children have strong ability to accept new things and make rapid progress because they are not afraid of making mistakes. As we get older, many people will trap themselves in excessive self-protection, always worry about making mistakes, dare not take practical actions, and thus lose their imagination, creativity and ability to explore.
So, I hope you can always maintain the courage to make mistakes.
NO.5
It’s better to rely on others than to rely on others
Rockefeller is the richest man on the Forbes rich rankings. His family wealth has lasted for six generations and is still among the top rich people in the world. He once wrote in his letter to his children:
"Only those who create happiness can enjoy happiness. Only those who only seek but do not give will only lose happiness. God makes us walk upright, so that we can walk on our own legs."
This is what I want to say to you. Your life should move forward step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step by step Neither your parents nor others can stay with you for the rest of your life.
Only things and gains that you can get by yourself will not let you down.
Give you the poet Wang Guozhen A sentence said:
"Opportunity, fight for yourself; destiny, grasp it yourself; life is your own drawing board, why rely on others to color it?"
NO.6
People must be grateful
We cannot live alone in this world, sunshine, air, food, family, classmates, colleagues, society... Each of us can survive with the support of our surrounding environment.
Don’t take all this for granted. Many people live unhappy in large part because they lack gratitude. They do not feel grateful for the gifts of life, but instead think that all this is for granted.
Once a person has the idea of "taken for granted", he will feel dissatisfied and complained. They only remember those unsatisfactory things. Over time, they will lose their yearning for a better life and become lost and sad.
At any time, we must be grateful for what we already have, which will make us get along more peacefully with the surrounding environment and people. Always be grateful and you will be more likely to feel happiness.
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