[Parenting Q&A] What should I do if my child can't lose playing games and is angry and crying?

can play a game of "don't cry if you lose" . Whoever doesn't cry if loses and dares to "fight again " means wins .

It is normal for children to be angry and cry when they lose the game. Children’s world is very small and they tend to take games very seriously, which is the main reason. On the other hand, children experience fewer failures and weak emotional control. Z2z

If the child loses the game and cries, the parents should not criticize or overly comfort, let the child cry for a while, and then be quiet. When we were young, the children played together, crying if they lost, and continued to play after crying. Without the presence of parents, these problems will not exist. Z2z

Children have no equivalent playmates, which is a big problem in current society. Parents play with their children. If the children cannot win, the children will lose confidence. If the child is always allowed to win, the child will be too proud and will not be able to lose. Therefore, the best solution is to have more children, so that the children have basically equal playmates.

Parents play with their children, let the children win and lose. When the child loses, it is important to point out that although you lose in , this time you have improved compared to last time. can only make progress and always win. When the child wins, the parents can also play and roll, let the child know that this is not good. If the parent loses, they can cry for a while and make the child laugh. Then, parents should tell their children that they can cry if they lose. After crying, the courage returned. Z2z

In addition, you can play " is not afraid to lose than anyone", "see who can fight with tears" games. Put the focus of the game on "not afraid to lose". Z2z

Finally, parents must understand that it is a good thing for children to cry. Turn the bad emotions away so that you won't hurt your body. A child with a low crying point does not mean cowardice. Too much entanglement in the problem of children crying is a common problem of modern parents and the enemy of education. ‍Z2z