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Recently there is a question that has been puzzling me. Should we fall down and get up again?
Before answering this question, I would like to give you a small example that is common in life:
If a child falls, if it is not particularly serious, we will ignore it or even pretend that we did not see it. When the child sees our calm expression, he will naturally I didn't feel much pain and I stood up on my own.
On the contrary, if we rush over to hug the child, keep comforting the child, and anxiously check the injured area, the child does not feel any pain at first, but is frightened by the parents' "exaggerated" behavior and has to cry. .
This kind of fall is not scary. What is scary is the concern of the people around you in the name of love.
I once heard a passage:
We are trying our best to learn how to sprint a hundred meters successfully, but no one has taught us: when you fall, how to fall with dignity; when your knee is broken and bloody, how to clean the wound, How to bandage it; how to heal the bleeding pain in your heart when you fall headlong, and how to gain deep peace of mind; how to clean up when your heart is shattered like glass.
When I saw this sentence, I was very young and could not really understand the meaning of this sentence.
Only when you grow up and really fall can you understand it.
It turns out that falling really hurts.
No one can tell me how to get up.
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The world of adults is not as simple as that of children.
Falls cause physical trauma on the one hand, and psychological trauma on the other.
For people with low psychological quality, this kind of trauma can be said to be almost devastating.
can even end his own life by committing suicide. They have lost the courage to stand up.
This process is like fighting against inner demons. If you cannot win the battle on your own, others cannot help you.
British novelist and scriptwriter Cold Smith once said: "For us, the greatest honor is that everyone has failed, and every time we fall, we can get up." The reason why successful people succeed. It's just that he is not swayed by failure.
Not wanting to be influenced by failure is a powerful motivation that comforts us to stand up.
Looking back at those successful people in history, which one has never fallen? Successful people are not because they are lucky, but because they get up after they fall.
Dare to face the pain after falling, which is the key to our success.
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It really depends on you whether you want to stand up or not.
Maybe you will struggle for a long time in this process, and you will hesitate for a long time.
Although the process is long, you will eventually have the answer, right?
When there are only two buttons in your heart: "persistence" and "give up", you know that pressing the "give up" button will get rid of all the burdens.
But you can't press it, because you know that pressing it doesn't let go of all the burdens, but it puts a lock on your heart.
It's like you fall and don't want to get up. For fear of falling again.
But the end of the road may not be what you imagined. You have to walk over and take a look.
Since you still have the strength to get up, don't let yourself lie on the ground for too long.
Why do people want to move forward?
Because you never know what your fate will be until the end, and you don't know whether there will be a good result in the future.
You always have the opportunity to go where you want to go, but you won't go anywhere if you stay where you are.
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