A woman in Sichuan, who was only 80 centimeters tall, insisted on getting pregnant regardless of her own safety, despite the doctor's obstruction. She had obviously taken the risk to give birth to a daughter, but she was still not satisfied and had to give birth to a son to carry on the family lineage. She almost risked her own life to give birth to two twin sons. What price did she pay for this? How is their family doing now?
had a bad fate since childhood
This stubborn but great mother was named Li Qinfen. She was born in an ordinary family in Sichuan Province. There were several brothers and sisters in the family, but she was the only one suffering from dwarfism.
Li Qinfen's height has not grown since she was four years old. With a height of 80 centimeters, she has been unable to lift her head due to her low self-esteem.
She often complained about the unfairness of her fate, which gave her such a short figure and allowed her to be ridiculed and ridiculed by others, but she had no ability to resist. Sometimes she even felt that living in this world was meaningless and thought of killing herself. There is no way to end this life, but I can’t be cruel every time.
Fortunately, Li Qinfen’s mother did not give up on her and cared for her in every possible way. She always taught her daughter to face life positively and optimistically. She also told her about many people who were physically disabled and strong-willed, and finally lived a good life through their own efforts. The story of the day.
It was Li Qinfen’s mother’s constant encouragement and heart-warming comfort that allowed Li Qinfen to slowly come out of the haze of life.
Although Li Qinfen grew up successfully, new problems appeared again. When Li Qinfen was 20 years old, many girls of the same age around her began to have matchmakers come to ask for a kiss, but only Li Qinfen was not interested.
After all, with her physical condition, no normal family would be willing to marry her.
Blind date
Mother also has a headache because of Li Qinfen's marriage. After all, she will always grow old and will not always be able to support Li Qinfen. She also has to have her own family.
So Li Qinfen’s mother paid a lot of money to ask a matchmaker in the village to find out if there was anyone who would not dislike Li Qinfen’s physical condition.
Several months have passed without any news from the matchmaker.
Just when their family was about to accept the cruel reality that Li Qinfen might not be able to get married, the matchmaker finally brought them good news.
It is said that there is a young man in his 30s from a neighboring village. Because he was naughty when he was a child, he fell down a hillside and suffered a lifelong disability on his back. His family was also very poor, so he has been single for all these years.
The young man’s name is Deng Hongwen. Although is 14 years older than Li Qinfen, he is a kind and honest person.
After listening to the matchmaker's introduction, Li Qinfen's mother was not satisfied. She did not want her daughter to marry a man who was so much older than her.
But a long time passed, and the matchmaker could no longer find anyone willing to go on a blind date with Li Qinfen.
Li Qinfen's mother could only tell her daughter about Deng Hongwen's existence to see if she was willing.
Li Qinfen did not hesitate too much. She agreed to the marriage. She clearly understood that in her situation, it would be great if someone was willing to marry her. Besides, Deng Hongwen was from the countryside and was not like those men who were away from home all year round. There are so many colorful intestines.
The main reason why they can get together is that both of them have physical defects, so no one has the right to dislike the other.
The two people soon went on a blind date under the introduction of the matchmaker. Although Deng Hongwen heard the matchmaker say that Li Qinfen was shorter, when he saw his height, he was also a little surprised. Although he was a little surprised, he was not. No disdain intended.
The two of them can be regarded as bastards who looked at mung beans, saw the right thing, and finally formed their own little family.
Rumors about life after marriage
Since Li Qinfen married Deng Hongwen, the conversation after dinner among the villagers has increased a lot. Many people are discussing whether Li Qinfen, who is so small, can give birth normally.
Some people even often gather outside the yard just to see this "strange" person like Li Qinfen.
Deng Hongwen said that his home was like a zoo, and the villagers always wanted to watch the excitement and came to watch every day. He only thinks that Li Qinfen is cute, and the two of them live happily together.
Although Li Qinfen is very short, she is the same as normal people in other aspects. She can also do the housework that others can do very well. She cooks and keeps the house in order. She is a typical good wife and mother.
Soon after the two got married, Li Qinfen became pregnant. This also completely refutes those who gossip.
After Li Qinfen became pregnant, Deng Hongwen stopped letting her do housework. After all, with her physical condition, it was very difficult to preserve the pregnancy.
Despite the care of her family, Li Qinfen's body was still unable to bear the weight of late pregnancy. The child was born prematurely at seven months old. She was a daughter. Fortunately, under the careful care of nurses in the hospital, the child slowly returned to normal.
Originally, both husband and wife were disabled, and they were worried that their daughter would also have some problems. Fortunately, God was merciful and her daughter was healthy, just like a normal child.
In order to have a son, she took the risk of having a second child
As soon as she gave birth to her eldest daughter, the doctor reminded Li Qinfen not to risk getting pregnant again. Her body was very weak. If she got pregnant again, her own life might be threatened.
But Li Qinfen disagreed. Affected by the patriarchal ideology in rural areas, the neighbors always pointed fingers at her and said that the Deng family would end in her generation. Li Qinfen also wanted to speak out for herself, and at the same time she also wanted to fulfill her mother-in-law's wish, but she still felt that she had to give birth to a son.
When Deng Hongwen saw his wife suffering so much to give birth to a child, he originally didn't want her to take any more risks, but he just couldn't stand Li Qinfen's bullying.
After Li Qinfen recovered, Deng Hongwen got her pregnant again.
Li Qinfen was very happy, but when she went to the hospital for a check-up, the doctor was a little embarrassed because she was pregnant with twins this time.
Li Qinfen was originally short in stature, and the last time she gave birth to a single baby, she did not even reach term. She was pregnant with twins this time. How was her petite body supposed to bear the weight of two children.
The doctor persuaded Li Qinfen to terminate the pregnancy, but Li Qinfen refused. She felt that this was a gift from God, and she had to give birth to the child even if she risked her own life.
Li Qinfen returned home to raise her baby with peace of mind. Seeing her belly getting bigger day by day, she was also tortured. Her severe morning sickness made her unable to eat anything, but the two fetuses in her belly needed nutrition, and she had to eat. .
Many times I vomit after eating, and then eat again after vomiting.
When she was a month old, her belly was like a bulging ball. The skin of her belly was bulging with the fetus, and blood vessels could even be seen through the thin skin. Every move of the fetus was vaguely visible.
The increasing weight of her belly made it difficult for her to move. Even standing was a luxury for her. If she sat up from the bed, the huge belly would pull her down again, and her belly would be spread out on the bed. .
Others may also feel a little sad during pregnancy, but the torture Li Qinfen endured was double.
After all the hardships, she finally gave birth to twins.
Li Qinfen gritted her teeth and finally made it to the day of delivery. The doctors and nurses who delivered him in the hospital were sweating a lot for him. They couldn't believe it. A girl who was only 80 centimeters tall How do people persevere?
The operation lasted several hours, and Li Qinfen successfully gave birth to two sons, and both children looked very healthy.
After Li Qinfen underwent this operation, she was finally gone from hell. Two healthy fetuses were gestated in her small body. Her internal organs were squeezed out of shape, but she heard the children's loud voices She felt that all the pain she had suffered was worth it.
People in the village no longer discussed whether she could add a child to the Deng family. After all, the facts were before their eyes. They all began to admire this petite figure but his courageous behavior that was willing to take risks for the sake of his children.
Now I have two children, but a new problem has arisen. The expenses for a family of six are too high.
The difficult life of a family
Since the twin sons were born, the family has been unable to make ends meet. Although the government provides some subsidies to the family, 170 yuan per month for adults and 150 yuan per month for children, this adds up to just over 1,000 yuan a month. The subsidy is completely insufficient.
Deng Hongwen is also disabled and cannot do any heavy work. The couple can only find another way out, raising some chickens and ducks at home and selling them at the market.
Li Qinfen also tried to wholesale some paper towels and sell them in the market. Because paper towels are necessities, the business was pretty good, and she was gradually able to keep her family fed and clothed.
The two sons are also very sensible. Even though the clothes they wear are always leftovers from others, they don't complain. Maybe they are still young and don't understand how special their mother is.
The two children regarded their mother, who was about the same height as themselves, as their playmate, and they lived a happy childhood.
Even if you can only drink porridge and eat some red sweet potato tips with the adults. They are always smiling cheerfully.
Then when the eldest daughter reached the age of studying, because her pocket-sized mother always picked her up from school, she was laughed at by her classmates, and sometimes she would lose her temper with Li Qinfen.
Li Qinfen knew that her daughter's self-esteem had been hit, so she tried not to pick her daughter up from school. She let Deng Hongwen do these things, while she spent more time setting up a stall to make money.
Although the family lives in poverty, Li Qinfen feels it is very meaningful. His children are all healthy, which is enough for her.
Conclusion
Maybe many people don't understand why Li Qinfen is so persistent, and feel that she gave birth to her children to make them suffer.
But when she tried her best to bring her children into this world, she was great, and she also worked hard to manage her life and tried her best to cultivate her children. She was a competent wife and a competent mother. .
Now these three vital children are Li Qinfen’s strongest “armor”.
When Li Qinfen was interviewed, she said that she was no longer afraid of other people's strange eyes. These three children were her most precious wealth.
may have been ill-fated since childhood, but she did not give in. She worked hard to live the life she wanted.
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