Everyone knows that the good looks before the age of 30 are given by parents, and they are all genes. After the age of 30, practice on your own.
Whether you treat everyone kindly or spend every day carefully, time will leave its mark on your face. Appearance reflects everyone’s current psychological state.
More than women, spirit, interesting soul and education are the greatest wealth in life.
01 Spiritual appearance, heart's desire
Zhang Defen said: What is written on your face, your temperament, and your aura is the road you have traveled, the books you have read, the friends you have made, the people you have loved, and even your outlook on life and values, which can all be read at a glance.
More than women, spirit, interesting soul and education are the greatest wealth in life.
What should be taken care of internally is the spiritual appearance.
The spirit and soul can be reflected in the appearance. What kind of soul will determine the kind of people you meet, and it will also make the people you interact with feel comfortable or uncomfortable.
As time goes by, the appearance gets old easily. However, the appearance given by the spirit only begins when we grow old.
I have come into contact with different people in my life. Some of these people are good and some are bad. Good people may not make you better, and bad people may not make your situation worse. The only thing that remains unchanged is that when you come into contact with these people, you will see different looks from different angles.
When you meet good people and noble people, their help and kindness can make you warmer inside, softer and more positive in your dealings with others, because the nobility of the soul is contagious. When you are with good people, you will become better and better.
But there will be exceptions. Some people whose native families are not very good, most of them will always accept help and gifts from others with peace of mind. Once it becomes a habit, once others cannot give it to you, you will feel disappointed, thus taking gratitude as a matter of course. Over time, it turned into meanness, and the lines in his face changed into sharp ones.
Tsinghua "Tshudong", a poor student in Tsinghua University, was full of gratitude to the companies and foundations, teachers and schools that supported him. He spent 3,200 yuan to support students in impoverished mountainous areas as soon as he got out of trouble. The sensational "Repaying Favor Gate" made Xiang Haiqing repay kindness with hatred, and it also became the memory of his life.
Good and evil are all personal choices. After many years, there is no resentment on Sun Li's face, but the softness and kindness remain unchanged.
No matter how miserable life and work are, never be a sharp, mean or harsh person, accept and understand yourself, be friends with yourself every day, love yourself, and be responsible for your appearance.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself: Are you satisfied? Happy? Kind?
Cultivating beauty starts from discovering your own beauty. Focus on spiritual and interesting souls.
Start now, not too late.
02 Strong or weak, the heart is filled with strength.
Snail When the grapevine had just sprouted, it climbed up with heavy shells on its back, while the oriole laughed at it... The song " Snail and Oriole " has given many people a clue.
The snail has a persevering enterprising spirit and never rests. Its shell is hard to the bone. Only you know how soft your body is.
Whenever I see a snail crawling, I want to help it walk. The heavy shell on its back makes the snail move forward slowly. When will it reach its destination? What would happen if the shell was removed?
Everyone desires to be who they are in their hearts, shouldering responsibilities and moving forward calmly. Regardless of how bumpy the road ahead is, they are unwilling to expose their weakness to the outside world. The hard shell is their fighting armor, filled with inner strength. They know that only in this way can they be safe.
In addition to his appearance in the workplace, his tough image also extends to his home. Especially those female workaholics who are strong on the outside but do the work on the inside, keep working hard 24 hours a day and still look like fighters when they get home. They are strong and eager for their families to change towards their own wishes, so that their families are always ready for war.
However, there is nothing we can do. There are never any relaxed nerves, and you are always ready to work as nervously as you have haste.
To change one's own tense state, it is actually to make a wish and then relax and do what needs to be done without forcing anyone to change.
Don’t force anything that you don’t get, and many things will fall into place naturally.
Learn to soften your inner strong self, break the inertia, and remind yourself to play the role you like. Encourage others more, correct the habitual condemnation mentality, talk to the people around you gently, slowly develop foresight, and let softness become a habit.
03Education is the conscious satisfaction of inner needs
When a person is hurt when he is completely undefended, he will gradually establish a defense mechanism and act as an organized and rational person. Once his emotions explode, they will be destroyed. Learn how to let go, coexist with your inner child, and acknowledge your imperfections.
At the same time, also open your heart to the people around you, listen to what others share, and listen silently. Those responses and suggestions are not advisable in many cases. As long as you put yourself in others' shoes, understand others, and listen, that's enough.
Go into the hearts of others, make yourself absolutely authentic, share your vulnerability and true side, and create empathy with others.
In addition to meeting the external needs of others, inner needs are important. Irreplaceable people are all because they have learned to empathize with others. Most of them will naturally adapt to their preferences, let themselves feel the same, and consciously to meet the other person's inner needs and solve the other person's actual problems.
Postscript
Temperament and aura determine appearance. If you are not a steel warrior wearing armor, you need softness to be strong in your heart. Understanding and accepting others is a more popular upbringing than forcefully changing others.
Cultivate spiritual appearance, have an interesting soul, and consciously walk into the hearts of yourself and others.
Education is the greatest wealth in life.
In addition to his appearance in the workplace, his tough image also extends to his home. Especially those female workaholics who are strong on the outside but do the work on the inside, keep working hard 24 hours a day and still look like fighters when they get home. They are strong and eager for their families to change towards their own wishes, so that their families are always ready for war.
However, there is nothing we can do. There are never any relaxed nerves, and you are always ready to work as nervously as you have haste.
To change one's own tense state, it is actually to make a wish and then relax and do what needs to be done without forcing anyone to change.
Don’t force anything that you don’t get, and many things will fall into place naturally.
Learn to soften your inner strong self, break the inertia, and remind yourself to play the role you like. Encourage others more, correct the habitual condemnation mentality, talk to the people around you gently, slowly develop foresight, and let softness become a habit.
03Education is the conscious satisfaction of inner needs
When a person is hurt when he is completely undefended, he will gradually establish a defense mechanism and act as an organized and rational person. Once his emotions explode, they will be destroyed. Learn how to let go, coexist with your inner child, and acknowledge your imperfections.
At the same time, also open your heart to the people around you, listen to what others share, and listen silently. Those responses and suggestions are not advisable in many cases. As long as you put yourself in others' shoes, understand others, and listen, that's enough.
Go into the hearts of others, make yourself absolutely authentic, share your vulnerability and true side, and create empathy with others.
In addition to meeting the external needs of others, inner needs are important. Irreplaceable people are all because they have learned to empathize with others. Most of them will naturally adapt to their preferences, let themselves feel the same, and consciously to meet the other person's inner needs and solve the other person's actual problems.
Postscript
Temperament and aura determine appearance. If you are not a steel warrior wearing armor, you need softness to be strong in your heart. Understanding and accepting others is a more popular upbringing than forcefully changing others.
Cultivate spiritual appearance, have an interesting soul, and consciously walk into the hearts of yourself and others.
Education is the greatest wealth in life.
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