People often say: "The lamb kneels to breastfeed, and the crow feeds back." The lamb kneels to suck its mother's milk, and the crow feeds the mother with food in its mouth when the mother is old. Animals still know how to be grateful, which is admirable.

Author: Danbo Chenyan

People often say: "The lamb kneels to breastfeed, and the crow feeds back." The lamb kneels to suck its mother's milk, and the crow feeds the mother with food in its mouth when the mother is old. Animals still know how to be grateful, which is admirable. Parents are the most selfless people in the world to their children. No matter how brilliant your life is, you must not forget the following three points:

1. Don’t forget the way you came. Life spans only more than thirty thousand days, thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi. When you experience the prosperity of the world and the beauty of the world, don't forget, who am I? Where do I come from? One of our favorite questions to ask our parents when we were children is: "How did I get here?" Our parents often answered us: "I picked it up on the road and exchanged it for things." It was so sad at that time. It turns out that I was abandoned and picked up by my parents. I was so pitiful. To be honest, you have to know who brought you into this world and guided you. This is a kind of immeasurable merit. How do we get through difficult circumstances? Confucius said: "By reviewing the past and learning the new, you can become a teacher." Never forget the past, that is who I am, that is my original intention and my duty. How many people, in the bustling world, have long forgotten their true nature.

A video posted online on December 19 of a young couple from Huining County, Gansu Province beating and insulting an 80-year-old mother attracted attention, heated discussions, and a lot of curses from netizens. The local public security department has intervened in the investigation. In fact, there are many such examples in rural areas. Some elderly people have worked hard to raise their children to adulthood. However, when they are in their dying years and need the care of their relatives the most, they are ruthlessly abandoned and left to fend for themselves.

During a public welfare activity targeting the elderly and disabled people, we selected more than 400 families with special difficulties in the county and conducted door-to-door surveys. We found that every family's house was decorated with style, modern facilities, and the windows were bright and clean. However, we could not find the elderly or disabled people. After asking the accompanying village cadres, I found them in an abandoned old house. The living conditions in the dark cave dwelling were simple, with only a little water and food, which made people feel sad.

On the way back, I kept thinking that there are always so many hard-hearted people in this world who give their coldest side to those who are so kind to them. In fact, no matter how difficult it is for you, no matter what kind of devastation and torture you suffer, it is not a reason for you to be cruel and violent.

2. Don’t forget the people who help you. When we are in the most difficult times, others lend a helping hand to help us overcome difficulties. This is a kind of kindness. We must always keep it in mind and repay the kindness. Don't let people who have done good deeds feel cold. Repay others within your own ability. Only in this way will your road go longer and your heart will be more peaceful.

Fan Zhongyan When he was three years old, his father passed away and his family was poor. After he was a teenager, he went out to study as a teacher at Yingtianfu College. While he was at the college, he cooked porridge every morning. After it solidified, he divided it into three pieces and cut the pickles into fine pieces (marking the porridge and cutting the pieces) for three meals a day. Seeing this, one of his friends gave him some silver to help him improve his life, but he declined politely. The next day another delicious meal was delivered to him. He couldn't refuse it and accepted it happily.

A few days later, my friend came over and found that the food had gone bad and had not been eaten. The friend was angry, and Fan Zhongyan said: "I'm afraid that after eating these good things, I won't be able to eat my porridge anymore. I appreciate your kindness." At this point, the friend respected his character even more. In the end, he succeeded in his studies and became a minister who cared about the country and the people, and a literary giant of his generation.

Suffering is the teacher of life. A person should not forget the path he has traveled. He should know how to repay kindness to the people he meets, and use his own talents to take on the responsibility of repaying his family, repaying the people who helped him, and repaying the society. Only in this way can he be a person who has escaped from low-level taste.

3. Don’t forget what you did wrong. When we are young, frivolous and high-spirited, most of us cannot listen to other people's opinions and have to follow our own path to the end. Full ideals are shattered by reality. When we hit the bottom in life, we can only strengthen our confidence and look for a way out.We must also conduct a deep analysis of ourselves, find our shortcomings, and conscientiously improve them.

When our elderly parents tell us about their insights and experiences in life, sometimes we don’t even have the patience to listen. We always feel that the time ahead is long and we don’t have time to listen to these babbles. When they are old and frail and unable to withstand the ravages of time, I think what they need most is the company and comfort of their children. When my mother was old, she sometimes felt that she was embarrassed when I took care of her, which made me feel sad. This is the duty that our children should do, and this is the reward.

Only when a person sees his own shortcomings and shortcomings can he truly mature. Whoever drowns in the deep water of society cannot swim. Being arrogant and invincible can only make your eyes roll up and your movements deformed. Naturally, you will not be able to see the abyss.

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