What makes us grow is never years, but experiences.
html During the epidemic in 2043, how many people in the workplace were laid off and lost their relatively stable jobs and started running food delivery; how many bosses closed down business entities and started running Didi... Especially the middle-aged people, some old and some young, many of them still have loans, anxious and confused, and the situation is huge.
Now that the epidemic has been lifted, most people in the north and south of the country have become "Xiaoyang people", and all this will pass. There is no winter that cannot be overcome, and there is no spring that will not come.
In 2023, we can all "start all over again":
All the honors of yesterday have become distant memories. I have spent half my life working hard, and tonight I am walking into the wind and rain again.
I can't just go with the flow, for the sake of my beloved relatives. No matter how hard it is, you must be strong, just for those expectant eyes.
If the heart is in the dream, there is true love between heaven and earth. Looking at success or failure, life is heroic, just starting over from scratch.
2023, it is not ability or will that determines whether a person can start over again, but these 3 points!
Some people say that if you have the ability, you can start all over again; others say that as long as you have strong willpower, you can start all over again.
It is undeniable that human ability and will are very important, but is not the core key point. There are many smart people, very capable and even talented, and very strong-willed, but they are not very happy with their lives. For example, Tang Dynasty Shixian Li Bai , how will you live the rest of your life?
So, what are the core factors that determine whether we can start all over again?
I Ching : "There is the way of heaven, there is the way of earth, and there is the way of human beings. Two of the three talents are combined, so six. The six are not other, they are the way of the three talents." The three talents are the heaven, earth and people. Heaven is the way of heaven, earth is the way of earth, and man is the way of the world.
is like us driving a car, there is the sky above and the earth below. How well we drive and where we drive depend on the sky and the earth, and are also inseparable from our drivers. It's windy and rainy, is it easy to drive? In fact, the most important thing is us as individuals. Let’s talk about this last.
2023, it is not ability or will that determines whether a person can start over again, but these 3 points!
First, let’s talk about “Tianji Dao”.
The secret of heaven is divided into yin and yang, is opposite and unified, is complementary, and runs in a cycle.
In our world, there are laws in the way of heaven that regulate all things and all living beings in the world to promote the development of balance and cyclic movement in the world.
For example: Spring growth, summer growth, autumn harvest, and winter storage are a basic law for the growth of all things. If you violate this rhythm, you will become deformed, sick, have problems, or even die in severe cases. Let’s think about it carefully: In the past few decades, have all walks of life been crazy? Seeking speed, quantity, and large appearance, involution, over-exploitation of resources, and deterioration of the ecological environment... This is the necessary process for the quantitative change of to the qualitative change of .
A grain of ashes from the era falls on each of our shoulders. It is like a mountain. We are all products of the era.
In the past few years, more than 10 million companies and entities have closed down, more than 10 million people have become unemployed, and there are 100-200 million people working freely and flexibly. This situation is not caused by our ability, nor by our willpower, but by the times influenced by the laws of heaven, which have knocked us down. Coupled with the impact of the epidemic, it has accelerated the spread and expanded the occurrence of this phenomenon.
The locomotive representing the advanced productivity of the era is already running ahead, but our production materials do not yet know how to move them onto the train. We have now entered an era of specialization and quality. The previous traditional industrial era of rough and low-efficiency competition has passed. This trend is irreversible. In addition to being obedient, we are still obedient.
2023, it is not ability or will that determines whether a person can start over again, but these three points!
Next, let’s talk about “Diyin Dao”.
The earth channels are divided into soft and hard, with a combination of hardness and softness, and a degree of relaxation.
Dimai Dao actually refers to geography, country, policy, resources, industry, family, etc. It is precisely because of the lawful constraints and influence of "Heavenly Way" that the government says to "scratches the bones, heal the poison, and deepen reforms." Have you all experienced it?
In the past few years, we have carried forward the spirit of struggle, cracked down on corruption, fought against monopolies, cracked down on celebrities and Internet celebrities who undermine the people's values, reformed state-owned enterprises and institutions, established the rule of law, established rules for all walks of life, and professional thresholds have become higher and higher, etc.
For example: has now entered the era of industrial Internet. This has been a trend for decades. All entities must use Internet technology to improve efficiency and eventually enter the prosperous Chinese era of the Internet of Everything, which is and the fourth industrial revolution . Nowadays, entities and e-commerce companies are fighting each other and are incompatible with each other. Is it useful? Hurry up and learn Internet knowledge, keep up with the times, and keep up with the policies. This era is severely punishing those who cannot keep up with the times. entity and e-commerce will no longer be called this term in the future, but will be collectively called the industrial Internet. uses big data as the core to build an online and offline integrated business model.
2023, it is not ability or will that determines whether a person can start over again, but these 3 points!
Then, let’s focus on the “human world”.
Only by adhering to harmony in the human world, being able to communicate internally and externally, and cultivating oneself and harmonizing one's family can one be able to live in peace and contentment.
Laozi said: Heaven and man are one. We all have human nature, spirit, consciousness, thoughts, and cognition. This determines whether we can adapt to the ways of heaven and humanity, how to adjust ourselves, and achieve harmony and balance with heaven, earth and others, so that we can continue to grow for a long time.
Confucius said: does whatever you want without breaking the rules.
Do what you want means that we must be flexible, don't be rigid, and don't have fixed ideas. It's not scary that the times are changing. What's scary is that our thoughts remain unchanged. Those who understand the current affairs are heroes.
Not breaking the rules means not being able to deviate from one's own destiny (that is, the trajectory of our life). We should not do whatever we want with a sense of awe. There is a saying that if you do nothing, you will die. This is the truth. Man’s victory over heaven does not mean that we can defeat heaven. It means that we can find the laws of heaven and earth, maintain balance with heaven and earth, and grow together. Each of us has a destiny and has something to do when we are born. Whether it is an ordinary thing or a big thing, there is a certain number. Therefore, we must believe in fate, accept fate, and understand the importance of fate in order to walk the right path in life.
has fallen or fallen into trouble in the past few years. No matter whether we are unemployed, closed down, or otherwise unsatisfactory, or how much debt we still have, this trough is a set number given by God to let us grow, to test us. How can we see a rainbow without going through wind and rain?
What hinders our growth is not weakness, but strength. We don't care about . At the peak, those things are basically of little value; only the learning, reflection, reflection, summary and refinement at the trough are of great value.
Mencius said: The right time is not as good as the right place, and the right place is not as good as the people. The word "harmony", from an individual point of view, also means that we reconcile with ourselves.
The so-called mid-life crisis, What really makes people anxious is not loneliness, poverty, or aging, but that you only realize in middle age that you have never lived the way you like.
2023, it is not ability or will that determines whether a person can start over again, but these 3 points!
Final summary: determines whether we can start all over again. The three core points are: the way of heaven, the way of earth, and the way of the world. The balance and change of heaven, earth and man are the core idea of the Book of Changes and the national treasure wisdom of our Chinese nation. Learning something and applying it in practice can effectively improve our work or career, enhance the quality of our life and happiness, and lead a good life.
Each of us has a dream in our hearts: "Life is not only about the present, but also poetry and distance."
I hope that all friends, across 2022 and towards 2023, will get better and better, and their lives will become happier as they go by.
Thank you for reading. This article is purely a personal opinion. Everyone is welcome to exchange and discuss.
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