Sometimes I wonder, what is freedom?
Perhaps from the moment we were born, we have been longing for freedom. In order to be free, we need to grow up quickly, because only when we are strong can we be free.
From then on, in the long journey of life, we are bound everywhere.
Before we learn to walk, we have no freedom at all. Only when others give you food can you eat; only when others give you a good look can you smile; only when others like you can you have the right to be loved.
Finally one day, we learned to walk. It was the first time in our lives that we experienced the feeling of freedom. We were happy and laughing, wow! It turns out that freedom is so beautiful! Because we can move freely, we can go wherever we want and go wherever we want.
Slowly, we grow up. When we move freely, we discover that our so-called freedom has a scope. We can only move within the sight of our parents. If we leave this scope, unexpected things may happen. Therefore, the so-called freedom is not free at all.
In order to gain true freedom, we still have to grow up. Slowly we leave the sight of our parents and go further and further away. This time, we are really free!
We are like flying birds, scurrying around, playing and running freely, but when we are tired of playing, we have to return to the home where there is no freedom. When we got home, there were all kinds of scoldings and accusations: "My clothes were dirty, my homework was not completed, I got into trouble by fighting with others..."
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When one problem after another came before us, we found the real reason for not being free. It turns out that our food, clothing, housing, and transportation are in the hands of others. Without our parents, we can't do anything, so we can't be truly free. Well, let's endure it for now. When we grow up a little bit, maybe we will be truly free.
Later, I finished my studies and got a job. This time I didn’t have to stay under the eyes of my parents every day. I could have my own income. Then I should be free. I could buy what I wanted to eat and use what I wanted to do. I had the final say on what I wanted to do.
Only those who are in charge know that oil and salt are expensive. For that pitiful income, we have to go to and from get off work on time, how to do our work, and we have to listen to other people's instructions. This is not what kind of freedom!
When we set up our own small family and had our own children, this time we upgraded! We have become the leader of the family. So, does this mean we are freer?
Alas! Are you wrong? For the sake of a family, we have seniors and juniors, all kinds of responsibilities, all kinds of responsibilities - freedom? What kind of freedom is this? This is a burden!
In fact, when life has reached this point, we should suddenly wake up. The freedom we have been pursuing will not absolutely exist.
Freedom does not mean freedom of movement without restrictions. You can open your mouth when you want to scold anyone, raise your hand when you want to hit someone, buy whatever you want, leave your job if you want, step on the accelerator if you want to speed, and others must follow you wherever you want to be with...
It turns out that in order to pursue freedom, we have been falling into a misunderstanding, thinking that being restricted means not being free.
In fact, freedom is relative. For example, in a certain environment, if we abide by the rules and regulations of this environment, we will be free, and vice versa.
When we are self-centered, do things without considering other factors, use our own thoughts as the starting point, and do whatever we want, then we will definitely lose our freedom.
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When we were growing up, we were eager to get rid of the shackles of our parents in order to get the so-called freedom. But when we really grew up and left the control of our parents, in order to enjoy the so-called freedom, we took many detours and even ran into obstacles everywhere.
One day, we encountered various setbacks and blows. When we returned to our parents who had controlled us in various ways, we suddenly discovered that all the lack of freedom was the protection of our parents. In order to allow us to gain more freedom, they restrained us everywhere and prevented us from taking detours.
One day, when we became stronger and the parents who restrained us actually wanted to express opinions based on our faces, we did not feel the sense of accomplishment we expected, but instead felt endless remorse and self-blame.
Now, we no longer insist on any freedom. We only hope that our parents can be healthy and give us some advice and guidance, which is the greatest happiness in the world.
The new crown has taken away three years of our free life. In order to get rid of the constraints, we look forward to unblocking and freedom every day. Finally one day, we are free, and no one will restrict our freedom.
Our freedom is exchanged for the spread of the new coronavirus. For this reason, the new coronavirus has taken away the health and even lives of many parents. At this moment, how many people would rather lose their freedom, as long as their parents can keep everyone healthy and safe.
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