I never thought that one day, I would be sick and have to lie in bed alone, helplessly enduring the pain, without
any medicine, no one to greet me, and I could only hear the sound of the body temperature rising rapidly in the air, which seemed to burn my whole body.
This is the hottest topic on the Internet. People who have probably had sex have experienced that kind of chaotic state with no hope, no end, and no clarity.
Some people recover quickly, while others quickly become two-pronged youth.
are under the same sky, why are there such differences?
For people in the post-epidemic era, the time has come to test their ability to heal.
People with strong self-healing ability will survive no matter what kind of life storm they experience. On the contrary, they will be eliminated by society.
There is a saying in " Bailuyuan ":
The most painful and desperate moment in life is the most difficult moment, but it is not the last moment at the end of life; if you get over it, an important turning point will begin and a new glorious journey will begin.
I saw a news online:
In a family in Hangzhou, the adults were all positive, but only the son in third grade and the daughter in kindergarten were still healthy.
Unexpectedly, my third-grade son suddenly grew up in an instant.
Yesterday, I had an argument with my sister over a toy. After knowing that my parents had all been tricked, I was very calm and took the initiative to take on the role of the chosen cook.
takes care of his parents three meals a day.
Sometimes, my parents would direct the cooking steps through the kitchen door.
Moreover, the two children have become particularly well-behaved and obedient.
completed online classes independently and completed homework.
Therefore, hardships in life are the best way for people to grow quickly.
Only when you truly understand the hardships of life can you cherish every day.
There is a powerful place hidden in everyone's heart that is not discovered, just waiting for the right opportunity to touch its switch.
In the 19th century, Miller, who was born in a French peasant family, loved painting when he was young.
But he didn't like the artistic style taught by the teacher. He resolutely left his teacher and went to Paris to find a way out.
At first, he could only live in Paris by painting nude paintings. In the end, he felt that this was a blasphemy to art, but his paintings of other themes
could not be sold either. He also fell into despair and distress.
In order to survive, he left the prosperous Paris and lived in the countryside.
In the countryside, although poor, life is difficult.
But the kind nature, simple farmers and farm life inspired the painter's creative passion.
He endured the days of loneliness and poverty, and finally created a series of famous paintings such as "The Sower".
People's own self-healing power comes out through the experience of life.
The ups and downs in life are a test for strong people and an ordeal for fragile people.
Strong people will increase their wisdom and develop self-healing power after being tested;
Fragile people will only fail in the face of a blow and choose to give up.
It is not scary to encounter difficulties. What is scary is that it is not difficult to extricate yourself from the difficulties of the past.
Lu Xun In " Blessings ", the well-known Xianglin's wife is a tragic character who is trapped in negative energy and cannot get out. In the end, I can only leave with dissatisfaction with society and resentment towards life.
In the background of the old times, there were many tragic women like Xianglin's wife, but they were able to get out of the pain and accept a new life by relying on their inner self-healing power.
There is a legendary woman in modern times. Although she was forced to bind her feet when she was a child, this did not hinder her yearning and pursuit of a better life.
She is Ge Jianhao . He was born in Xiangxiang County, Hunan Province in the fourth year of Tongzhi in the Qing Dynasty (1865 AD).
html When he was 116 years old, Ge Jianhao married Cai Rongfeng, the son of Cai Shousong, on the order of his parents and married to Yongfeng Town, Shuangfeng County.
She was not willing to live an ordinary life and pinned all her hopes on her children. Not only did she allow them to receive new education
, but she also allowed them to go out of the mountains to study in Changsha.
At that time, Ge Jianhao strongly advocated equality between men and women , and she was determined not to bind the feet of girls at home.
In order to prevent her husband from selling his daughter to others as a child bride, Ge Jianhao actually asked his son to flee his hometown overnight with Cai Chang, who was only 14
at the time.
Soon, Ge Jianhao also came to Changsha and took the first step to escape her own fate.
html Ge Jianhao, who is in her 140s, started her new life in Changsha.
Under the system of the old society, a woman with bound feet actually did something that surprised the society.
She was the first Chinese woman with bound feet to study in Europe and founded a women's vocational school .
Ge Jianhao raised three boys and three girls. The eldest son and second daughter died young.
The third son Cai Hesen, daughter-in-law Xiang Jingyu, daughter Cai Chang and son-in-law Li Fuchun are revolutionaries.
"Life Times" once published a point of view: To a certain extent, doctors only stimulate the body's self-healing power when treating diseases. In the end, it is not medicines that cure diseases, but people themselves.
Only when you get out of the circle of bad emotions and open up your inner world will you find a way to heal yourself.
The true power of self-healing comes from the darkest moments and from the strongest heart.
First: Create your own opportunities
German music master Bach, he lost his mother when he was 9 years old, and lost his father the next year, becoming an orphan.
Because he had no travel expenses, he became an apprentice and wanted to learn famous music. He wanted to borrow his brother's music scores.
My brother disagreed, so he secretly copied the music scores, which lasted for half a year.
Although his brother did not support him in learning music, his pursuit of music has always been stirring in his heart. His dream of loving music became his own secret, and even had a self-healing effect.
He was not deterred by his brother's difficulties, but still created opportunities and eventually became a music master.
Creating opportunities amidst difficulties also increases the power of self-healing.
Secondly: physical illness will only encourage progress
Hua Luogeng has shouldered the heavy responsibility of family life for his father due to poverty since he was a child.
When he had free time, he borrowed several mathematics books and spent five years studying all the mathematics courses for his junior year of high school and first year of college by himself.
But when he was 18 years old, he unfortunately contracted typhoid fever.
Fortunately, his family's careful care saved his life, but he became permanently disabled.
Under the care of the middle school teacher, Hua Luogeng worked as a part-time worker in the middle school.
He studies whenever he has free time, forgetting about his often painful left leg.
Everyone in life will encounter pain and suffering. You can put them aside and do research.
is a kind of hobby that does not give up.
This spirit of not giving up also secretly healed himself and his physical imperfections.
The inner strength is the true health.
’s strong self-healing power can not only make up for physical defects, but also increase the power of self-confidence!
Furthermore: Poverty in life has another positive effect.
In a village in the Arush Plateau of Ethiopia, a little boy could only run to school barefoot because of poverty, and had to carry his textbooks home under his arm.
10 kilometers per day.
In the end, the boy broke 15 world records in world long-distance running competitions and became the best long-distance runner in the world today.
He is Helgebresilasie.
Because he often ran with books between his legs, in later competitions, one arm would always be raised slightly higher than the other and closer to the body - still retaining the posture of running with textbooks between his legs when he was young.
Don’t be intimidated by temporary difficulties. Maybe it is just a test question on your way forward. If you get it right, you will get a ticket for the next stop.
Finally: Persistence is the most powerful weapon for self-healing
Jack London was born in a poor family, but he wanted to be a great writer and had a great future of transforming society with his pen.
In order to become a writer, he took extra classes in middle school for a year, and then was admitted to the University of California. He couldn't afford the tuition and dropped out of school after only half a year.
Dropping out of school did not shake his dream.
He takes society as his classroom and seizes the time to study.
The works of Darwin, Marx, Nietzsche, etc. helped him learn to think; Shakespeare, Goethe, Balzac and other works helped him learn to write.
He started writing and submitting articles, but they were rejected again and again. But he was not discouraged.
lives a difficult life, so he relies on pawns to survive. If there is not enough time during the day, I will write at night; diligently take notes, make indexes, and copy cards.
finally published his debut novel "For the Hunter" in 1890.
Being able to overcome all difficulties is a strong self-healing force that has been established invisibly.
Then, in the years to come, these impermanences in life will be full of life, and even become friends who come to visit without saying hello.
I don’t know which one will come first, change or stability.
Accident and safety, I don’t know which one will come.
In such a crisis-ridden post-modern world, inner strength and self-healing power are even more important.
Only you are the doctor who can heal your life.
The powerful spiritual connotation is a good medicine for self-healing power.
Regardless of the ups and downs, the pace of progress cannot be stopped. I believe in my own ability. I believe that I have gone through the days when no one cares about me and I fight Xiao Ao alone. All difficulties are just clouds.
There is no endless cold, and there is no spring without flowers.
For the rest of my life, may you and I both believe in the power of self-healing and be indestructible!