1.
Many people do not realize that when
encounter difficulties that they cannot solve,
you have an option to "take a step back":
Allow yourself to temporarily stop moving forward,
become a short-term "waste".
2.
What is called "being a short-term waste",
actually allows us to learn "self-acceptance".
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3.
In interactions with others,
will not be afraid that others will see the true self, and
will not cover up or deny part of oneself in order to maintain a good image of oneself in the minds of others
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4.
Never feel that "as long as I continue to criticize and deny, I can change."
Blaming yourself often fails to bring real improvement to yourself.
On the contrary, it will increase the sense of powerlessness and anxiety,
bring more negative emotions.
- "The Life Philosophy of Cats and Dogs"
5.
Can you take a leave from the world?
I want to leave for a while.
6.
You are just becoming more and more accepting of reality,
rather than becoming more and more realistic.
7.
Lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives;
Unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives.
- Alfred Adler
8.
The most important label in life,
is his own name.
9.
What you have done may not see results for the time being.
But don’t be discouraged or anxious.
You are not not growing, but you are taking root.
10.
There is no perfect world.
accept your own differences.
also accept the differences of this world.
What you have to make are your own rules.
11.
We are all survivors of the past.
What we finally learned is how to reconcile with ourselves.
—— Lu Sihao "The Answer of Time"
12.
If you fall into the darkness,
all you can do is to wait quietly,
until your eyes adapt to the darkness.
—— Haruki Murakami "Norwegian Forest"
Feel every frame of life with your heart, and he will return you a poetic feeling.
Whether it is full of changes, sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty; or simple food, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
Only by living seriously in the present can you realize the fairy tale in your heart.
I am Yuan Su Su, Er Er Yuan, Xing Xiu (Su) su, let’s look for the stories hidden between the lines in life.