Zhang Defen said: "When you adjust your inner world well, your outer world will naturally become very smooth."
Sometimes it is not because of how bad we are, but because we become very impatient when facing problems. If we can stabilize our emotions and become calmer, Taishan will collapse in front of us without changing our expressions, Yellow River will depend on our words but our hearts will not panic. Then we can solve any problem well.
As the saying goes: Impulse is the devil. Every decision you make when you are impulsive will 99.99% regret it afterwards. Every decision made with no brainer or care will end up being a mistake. This is the best time to test our patience and perseverance. The calmer we are, the more conducive we are to changing things for the better.
Bill Gates said: "Don't try to change the world, and don't try to change others. That's not something you can do easily. The best and most direct way is to change yourself. As long as you change, everything will change."
The four steps of life in the process of growth: change, adapt, tolerate, and give up. Smart people often take the initiative to change themselves to adapt to and tolerate the current environment. If they cannot do the above, they will decisively choose to give up. Stupid people often neither like, change, or give up, but choose to complain in all kinds of ways, which ultimately makes them physically and mentally exhausted.
The world kisses me with pain, but I respond with songs. This is a choice.
The world kisses me with love, but I retaliate with kindness. This is also a choice.
The former will make us happier and happier, but the latter will make us more and more miserable.
I hope you choose to change yourself, never forget your original intention, and move forward.
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