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secretly stayed up late to watch football last night. For fake fans, there seemed to be no reason. It was like everyone was watching and enjoying the feast. They also wanted to join in the fun. They didn’t want to expose their ignorance or be taught by their family. They had to secretly appreciate it. At most, they shared this joy with their good friends when they scored goals.
To be honest, people hope that Messi can be perfect. Although it doesn’t matter to me, and no one can win will affect my ignorant viewing, I can’t help but keep the same expectations as everyone. It may be because I was infected by others, or it may be that the happy ending can express my recognition of hard work. The final result ended successfully. For fake fans, although they were ignorant, they also expected it to come true, and there was inevitably joy.
realized from it that I projected and recognized a perfect state, a person with ups and downs, hard work, and affectionate and righteousness should get the desired satisfactory results. This is my belief, so I expressed such an emotional reaction under the ignorant viewing.
Scarce perfect
Many people may have the same belief as me, and take it for granted that hard work should bring rewards, but a bumpy life must have a perfect ending. Only when good people are rewarded can they be in line with moral evaluation. I think it is precisely this core belief that will make people move towards goodness and move forward unyieldingly. Just like this football feast, there is a happy ending.
So, although I am ignorant of football and do not know the complex formations, different positions, and even many foul rules, it does not affect my appreciation of the characters based on the characters I learned from my friends and colleagues when I appreciate them, and then a strong tendency surges during the game.
often has a mentality of watching the excitement or appreciating the performance in ignorance. It should not have too many tendencies. In fact, he lost his neutral attitude, added his core beliefs, projected to recognize such a happy ending, and was delighted by it. Only when ignorance is easily attracted and can core beliefs be activated. I believe that the reason why
has projected recognition is that I also think that I am a person with ups and downs along the way, a person who works hard, a person with affection and righteousness, or who is not as image as it is, and I look forward to becoming such a core belief. Therefore, we will strongly agree with such a successful ending, give up ignorance, lose neutrality, let us be pulled, and let emotions flow freely.
However, when I finished watching the TV series " The World of Long River ", I sighed about perfection again, because perfection is an extremely small probability event, and most people cannot do so, especially like the core belief, the moral understanding of firmly believing that good people should have good rewards will often fail. And such a story, an abnormal ending, is the most common scene that happens.
is just that we habitually project and agree with our core concepts, so we think that such a happy ending is perfect. In most cases, the person who should be most satisfied cannot experience perfection. People who have ups and downs, struggle, and are affectionate and righteous may not necessarily have a good ending. It is just that we take small-probability events as a matter of course. But we regard this cheap expectation as an inevitable event, which is the biggest misunderstanding.
Open-minded people can survive, such as Jin Fu in "The World's Long River"; those who persist in persistence will end up in hatred, such as Chen Huang in "The World's Long River"; and the most perfect person is a stupid but lucky person who becomes the real chosen son of God in the inexplicable evolution, such as Yu Zhenjia in "The World's Long River"; and so on. There is no perfect ending. It’s all like this rags, and it’s the general way.
Back to football, there are more people who are not perfect, while only a few people who are perfect. Otherwise, we will not regret others' regrets and cry for others' injuries. Although I don’t understand football, I will be sang praises by the hero’s tragedy. But after the sings, I forgot to sing for whom.Because, I only remember this happy ending, and did not fulfill the memory pattern of unfinished events (Gestalt Psychology believes that unfinished events will be remembered more deeply), it may be that my core belief is too persistent, or it may be that my ignorance saved the story of these tragic endings.
has to mention again the "Stockdale Paradox" proposed in Frankel "The Meaning of Living Life". You must not only recognize the cruel reality, but also believe gently and firmly in order to survive firmly. Therefore, perfection is scarce. You should maintain the core moral beliefs, but don’t be obsessed with perfection. This may be the most appropriate state. In this way, although ignorant, but expecting perfection, this cognitive concept is met.
Summary
When cheering for a happy ending, it shows that my ignorance is no longer neutral, but is biased towards the expectation side. This is something worth celebrating, but for fake fans, what they gain is the satisfaction of core beliefs and the resonance of projective identity, so even if they are ignorant, they still look forward to the perfection.
is just that such perfection is scarce, and unfulfilling is the norm, otherwise there would not be so many sad praises. Just as imperfect life is the norm, only death is perfection. Only by not obsessing with this but holding on to such a yearning may we survive just the right time.
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