Do you still remember when we didn’t understand love when we were young, we were complete and carefree. I don’t know when the body began to change, and my agitation started to start, and our attention began to be attracted by people.

Like light, electricity, like myth

Do you still remember when we didn’t understand love when we were young, we were complete and worry-free. I don’t know when the body began to change, and my agitation started to start, and our attention began to be attracted by people.

Slowly, we feel more and more lonely, lonely, empty, and lost. Deep in our hearts, there seems to be a bottomless black hole that cannot be filled. We think we need to find "a specific person". It seems that only by finding the other person can our hearts be regained.

Later, when we knew the word "soul", we firmly believe that the soul is created in pairs. Because in Genesis it also said that God created people as one, without women or men. Because he was too bored, God was worried about this meaningless state of life, so he separated everyone from one halves, one for a man and one for a woman. The legend says that half is himself, and the half is transformed into a distant soul mate.

came to the vast world, and we all want to find the lost partner for the rest of our lives. After experiencing hundreds and thousands of years of reincarnation, I believe that there is still an eternal and indescribable sense of intimacy between each other.

In many film and television works and novels, they also depict the scene and feeling of the "specific person" appearing: two originally strangers meet in the vast sea of ​​people, and at the moment when their eyes meet, they look at it for thousands of years.

soul mark triggered the resonance of energy fluctuations in the two bodies, like a beautiful and brisk song lingering around them, urging each other to get close to each other, attracting like the poles of a magnet: the current of love flows through every nerve fiber in the body, and every cell can't help but cheer and sing.

Two people will tell each other all their secrets in their hearts in less than a day. And many thoughts that no one can understand after saying a thousand words. Just a smile or a look will be understood by the other party.

Yes, like all fantasy plots, the other party can catch every word you say, every subtle expression of yours will have a right reaction, and you feel your pain. As described in " Untitled " by : "There is no colorful phoenix flying wings, and the heart is in harmony."

HTM3The attractiveness of each other's bodies is equally strong. The surging electric shock of fire burned wildly with each other's nerves. In every touch of the limb, there was an impulse to help himself. The flame of love burst out violently, quickly climbing to the peak of ecstasy, illuminating the originally dark world.

We will feel that the body and mind are wonderful and unspeakable. The person in front of us is flawless. In a life that was originally a stagnant pool, everything begins to become vibrant and shines with dazzling and magical brilliance. The appearance of TA, like light, electricity, and myth, satisfy all your desires and your mentality of being redeemed.

The feeling above the past Yanyun

, reality does exist. Because of my sensitive physique, I encountered several similar "overwhelming" times in the first half of my life. When we meet each other, our body and mind will show an incredible sense of shock. The energy is like a rushing mountain, surging, raging impact, running through our body and mind, and at the same time there is a sense of dizziness that transcends time and space. The faintest and weakest reaction is also a significant fluctuation in the heart chakra.

If both people have sensitive constitutions and experience them at the same time, it will make us more attached to our relationship, that is, if the other party believes that I am TA's soul mate, I will also mistakenly think that TA is my soul mate.

However, things are not what they seem. Legends and fantasies are always romantic and perfect, and narrow-minded. Many times, what we attract is only a deep karmic companion. Everything is always relative, and such a fierce burning, the power of attraction and repulsion is equally fierce.In the end, the passion of dopamine and hormones subsided, and the psychological defects and childhood trauma of the two people began to be activated. All problems will emerge and the same tragedy as in the previous life will continue to be repeated.

We are constantly experiencing and experiencing the soul marks formed by pain are always there. In previous lives, we might have been friends, couples, lovers, family, colleagues or other relationships, but it always touches the deep pain in both parties - through lies, control, betrayal, abuse of power or excessively strong feelings, bringing deep emotional trauma to each other. Time flies, things change, but our obsession still exists, creating new pain and reincarnation...

"Perfect" time in the material world is always fleeting. This world is full of various incompletes, and this is the process of human intimacy, which is also an inherent setting when "de-factory".

is like two people who just fell in love. Because of love, they are together, even if they don’t speak, they are sweet, happy and satisfied. After enjoying the romantic movement, they come one after another to implement the real food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and the focus begins to shift to the actual issues of considering money and material levels. During the daily relationship, each other's shortcomings began to be exposed, because the two of them did not have a clear awareness, and in the daily disgust and quarrel, they eventually became a mess. We exhausted our efforts to pursue a soul mate and hoped for the perfection and completeness of love. It turned out that we were just deceiving ourselves and dreaming of yellow.

Female litter for extramarital affair

And in many stories of intramarital affair, "soul mate" has also become a fig leaf for extramarital affair. Many people are tired of marriage and are eager to find the so-called soul mate and ignore the person next to them.

Even if they are happy in their marriage, they cannot hinder their curiosity at all. They are fascinated by the shadow of the "soul mate" in their hearts and forget about reality and responsibility. This soul mate, limited to the "love level", is just the greed of the mind and body.

Because we are human beings, our pursuit of truth, goodness, beauty and perpetuality has been eternal and unchanging since ancient times. In the spiritual circle, many such situations also occur. Under the guise of improving each other's spirituality, they secretly "break the precepts" and just to be with their "soul mates". I won't say much here. After all, this is all the cause and effect between them.

Get out of the soul mate fantasy

soul mate is just our perfect fantasy. In this world, no "outsider" can fill the gap in our hearts. Many of us have spent years obsessed with finding soul mates without noticing what we really want.

When we seek soul mates,

We are actually in,

craving for the growth and development of deep consciousness ,

If we don’t understand this,

will hinder our inner improvement.

soul is the ultimate infinite perfection,

It does not need a companion.

is needed by the mind and body.

When the energy in the body reaches equilibrium,

When the body and mind are completely healthy,

You feel very happy and satisfied when you are with yourself,

You don't need it You need someone;

And when energy is unbalanced,

You will feel unhappy when you are with yourself,

There is a sense of lack and lack,

So, you always need someone urgently.

inner lack and fear,

make us mistakenly think of ourselves,

requires a relationship and a relationship,

but you must recognize,

The true face of inner deprivation and fear,

and crush and resolve.

The person who came to the side,

is the material world image projected by

,

is attracted by the frequency of thought.

TA is inherently similar to the current needs, but

is not a real need.

We only use the other person's words and deeds to observe our true appearance.

"So, there is no soul mate, it is fixed and can meet your needs for life, because your heart is changing, and the other party is changing, and everything is a progressive process." We always think that there is a soul mate waiting for us somewhere, and the "universe" has created a person for "me". But now, every once in a while, he will create another person for you. It is obvious that the universe has made too many mistakes in us.

This is why, we always feel that no matter how close a person is and how close he is to know, he will still feel lonely. No matter how excellent or perfect the other party is, it is not you. Although "soul mate" brings us nutrients, it still cannot completely fill the black hole in our hearts. This inner lack can only be filled with. Because the true soul mate is oneself, the perfection of returning to one's own nature.

The final freedom

3 I wrote a passage many years ago,

Although it is too direct, it is also a real feeling:

Only those who have a heart that is missing will look for it,

are either material or spiritual.

cannot live your own life well,

will always fantasize about the distance,

will transition from one disappointment to another,

Any external dependence,

cannot achieve the ultimate freedom.

When you understand all this, in this special period of the earth's uplift, old souls who have almost cleared their karma and emotional relationships will definitely not be attached to "soul mates". is also the same in the face of temptation, see if your heart is clear and firm, and whether you are blindly involved in desires and forget your original intention as before. takes back the heart that is looking outward, regain peace and tranquility in the daily meditation, use awareness to resolve the past obsessions, use unconditional acceptance and self-integration.

How many frustrations and confusions do you need to face in life,

needs to be brave,

can face up to the panic and cowardice in your heart,

and smash these real illusions one by one.

We don’t need to pursue happiness,

only clear the inner ones,

will stop our happiness obstacles.

Speaking of this, by the way, when the illusion of "soul mate" was shattered, the spiritual circle "created" the "twin flame". It is said that before the twin flames are combined into one, you need to become complete first, and each other will love each other unconditionally. Their encounter will involve a greater mission.I also have different opinions on these. I will talk about them later if I have the opportunity to do so. Interested friends can follow them.

Thank you for every encounter

No matter who appears in our lives, it is by no means a random coincidence, there must be the reason behind it. Every life is quietly affecting another life. Like a well-crafted movie, it is redundant and meaningless to appear without a single character.

Everyone appears exactly where they need it. At absolutely right moments, interact with people who really need to interact. In the perfect time, make a perfect exchange to get what you really need.

Some people appear in your life, perhaps just to tell you a simple sentence to awaken you at an appropriate time. Many people will quietly retire after completing the mission that appears in your life. Many times, this quiet way can't even be noticed. One day, I suddenly remember it and I am shocked to see their disappearance. I am even more surprised that everything is so natural and so seamless.

I have been following my inner inspiration many times and appearing in the place where I should appear in time. When I meet the person I should meet, at the end of the story, no matter what the external ending direction is, I can always get a gift inside.

Like the 2020 fortune Saturn entered my twelve house. This was a day that triggered "cause and effect" and "repaying debts". That summer, I was in seclusion in the back mountain. My inner experience allowed me to come out of seclusion in advance and began to consciously "repay fate". Now, Saturn has finally reached its tail. It is said to be "pay debt repayment", the people who appeared during this period are more like my teachers, helping me grow in a tangible way and giving me many unspeakable gifts. If we persist in believing in this world that there is a perfect soul mate waiting for us, it is easy for us to ignore other homework in life.

Conclusion

Life is the process of "borrowing falsehood to cultivate the truth". Whether it is my personal experience over the years or the client coming to consult, I have always wanted to write something about "soul mate" over the years. As a result, this year's Mid-Autumn Festival combines the relevant information I have seen over the years with some of my own experiences and insights. This article was just a busy period. After writing it, I kept it on the computer without modifying it. Recently, I felt that the time was almost up, so I pushed it out after modifying it.

Bless all walks of life in love and light.

will get lost when looking for it, and

will find it if you don’t look for it.

Care for this heart,

neither happy nor sad,

Let it be content with the present,

Watch the sun rise and the moon set, the cold and the heat go,

slowly experience the exquisite design of the universe,

and the meaning behind everything.

It is the best arrangement no matter who comes to you.

try to believe and accept it.

There are indeed many things in this world that go beyond our currently limited scope of senses and understanding. However, if our minds do not believe in the arrangement of the highest wisdom of the universe, and do not believe that the person he sends best matches our present, and can allow us to learn what we need to learn the most in the present, how can we really grow?

If you meet someone, you feel moved and you really like each other and care about each other. Try to face this relationship with a broader and more open heart, and don’t be influenced by the concept of soul mate.

What you need to do is to open your heart, respect and love the other person's "advantages" and "disadvantages" with the purest heart, be brave and firm, eliminate all difficulties, accompany the other person to grow up, rely on each other in plainness, feel the fireworks of the world together, experience the ups and downs of life together, and hold hands until old age together.

The last, you will definitely find that the person who has always been by your side will be the most brilliant treasure in your life, far better than the so-called "soul mate".

Xu Lanqin

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Life practice cultivation / Energy healer

Birthday has the number 11. Maya Imprint White World Bridge. I had too many questions about the universe and humans as a child. I have experienced running away from home, depression, , suicide. In 1998, I met the master and officially started my spiritual journey. In the past twenty years, it has been involved in Zen, Taoist , Christianity, soul astrology, hypnosis therapy, akaxi healing, essential oil aromatherapy, crystal healing, digital energy, fasting fasting, subconscious psychology, human map, Mayan imprint, traditional Chinese medicine, name science, Feng Shui, tea ceremony, incense and other fields.

2016 was a major change in life. I followed the internal guidance and became associated with Qinling . Later, I lived in seclusion here and went into seclusion many times, and learned more secret order in the universe in emptiness.

Thanks to the grace of the universe, he joined the World War in 2022 and founded the Wuhan Euyuju Spiritual Home Studio (integrating tea ceremony, incense, body and mind healing, and accommodation). In the future, it will be opened to the public in the form of in the form of charity.

is the time today, and the cause and condition is ripe. I hope it can help more people understand the hidden order more, so as to spontaneously create a sense of tranquility and security. "Your nature is originally pure and perfect."