2022 is about to end in a blink of an eye. This year is the same as every year before, in a hurry and trivial way. I don’t know when the days will become like this, neither sad nor happy, but just keep moving forward.
However, life is not entirely like this. There will still be a lot of subtle happiness in the absence of sorrow or joy, and the heart will be full of confidence and courage.
I often think that a person may have countless worries and misfortunes, but life is still worth it, because worries allow us to learn to sort out our emotions, while misfortune allows us to learn to take responsibility, and also makes us more persevering and brave.
is like a sentence written by Lu Yao in "Ordinary World": "Fate is always worse than people's wishes. But it is often in countless pains, in many contradictions and difficulties that people mature and become stronger; although these things don't bring people happiness in actual feelings."
is indeed like this. Life is always bitter and joyful, and even more bitter than joy. But as long as a person has confidence in his heart and can see the beautiful things in life, then the world is worth it, and life is beautiful.
Therefore, throughout the year, giving yourself the following three sentences will give you full of energy and let you continue to move forward with a passionate heart.
01 Thank you for your hard work
people need to be affirmed, especially those who are affirmed by themselves. Not being affirmed by others may make you feel sad and disappointed, but not being affirmed by yourself will completely disintegrate your confidence and make you collapse.
Therefore, it is extremely important for a person to affirm himself and is very necessary.
Therefore, no matter how much you have gained this year, no matter whether you have accomplished what you want to do this year, and achieved the goals you set for yourself, no matter how you live this year, you should say "Thank you!"
Yes, for the self who is still working in the middle of the night; in order to save money, just to make yourself save more; for the self who still has to do housework after sleeping soundly for the child; in order to face the self who has broken heart; in order to bravely face the self who has been in love for countless moments... Even if it is just for this year you have not made yourself lazy than before, you should say "Thank you" to yourself.
Because life is not easy, as long as everyone in it can live well, it is already great.
So, after this year, no matter what, you should learn to affirm your value and learn to admit your efforts.
02 Continue to be the one you like
If you are busy all your life, work hard but don’t live the way you like, will you feel very regretful?
In the TV series " as the mistress ", Shen Cuixi has always lived in the rules. Before getting married, she cared about the old lady's opinion. After getting married, she wanted to get her husband's recognition. She did everything she could do, worrying about the whole family and the business, but she only forgot about herself.
Later, she felt that the regular life had been too long and too tired. She wanted to see what she could live like if she was casual and relaxed.
So she is no longer the head mistress of the Ren family, and she chooses to leave the Ren family and live the life she wants. She was busy and worried as before, but she lived an extremely happy life. Because everything she did later was what she wanted to do, she didn't have to care about other people's eyes, nor did she have to long for others to recognize. She just did what she thought she should do, what she liked.
So, how should a person live in this life? In fact, you can live no matter how you live, but at least you should live the way you like, so that you can really live.
Therefore, after a year, you should tell yourself this sentence - continue to be the one you like, and let yourself continue to walk on this road with confidence in the coming year .
You should know that you will not become what you want, you will only become what you believe in. So, keep cheering.
03 The world is worth
Yang Jiang said that life is really hard. This sentence has indeed touched the hearts of too many people, because life is sometimes too hard. He tried his best but still couldn't get what he wanted; he worked hard and still looked ordinary; he was carrying a heavy burden, but there were still constant difficulties...
However, Yang Jiang also said that self-cultivation means training himself, which is the most fundamental requirement for being a human being.
There are indeed a lot of suffering in life, but cultivating beautiful qualities in suffering is a very meaningful and beautiful thing.
Yang Jiang's life was also full of all kinds of suffering, but when she was one hundred years old, she said that her heart was as calm as water, and she should welcome every day peacefully and live every day well.
can be seen that she is satisfied with her life. Because no matter what difficult years she is, she is on the road to make herself better and better. She has learned a lot and obtained a lot.
So, don’t use suffering to deny knowing your life. No matter how many ups and downs there are on the road of life, the world is still worth it. Because we will feel love, warmth, birds singing and flowers singing, and our own progress.
Therefore, after a year, we should say to ourselves that "the world is worth it", because the world is really worth it, and every day is worth it.
Time never stops its pace, life continues, but a person's life is limited after all. How to live a limited life well and live happily is something that each of us has to face. Therefore, give yourself the above three sentences and continue to live forward with full energy.
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I hope everyone can live the way they like.
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