had a meal with a friend, and three of them sat down to chat. One of them said he was very disappointed with the world.
The reason is that he has been in trouble recently, his relationship is in urgent need, and his family's health has also had problems.
I smiled and comforted him, saying that there is no need to be disappointed in the world. Life is so long and it is impossible not to encounter difficulties. People live in a new difficulty every day.
Then I asked him: Can you change
’s work not going well, or find a way to solve it?
Can the romance be in ease, or give up the inappropriate ones and then let go?
Is the family’s health a minor or serious problem? Is there any treatment? The answer obtained by
is that there is still room for everything, not a desperate situation.
So I said, that's good, as long as it is not the moment of real despair, you only need to overcome the predicament in front of you. Although
is difficult, I can only work hard, otherwise it will become more and more difficult.
People will always be trapped by the predicament in front of them. Because their mentality collapses, many problems will be infinitely magnified.
I remembered a passage I read before:
/If you are in a bad mood, listen less sad songs,
/If you are hungry, find food and turn on the lights if you are afraid of the darkness.
/If you want, make money and buy what you want.
/Even if life has given you many obstacles,
/There is no need to use pretentiousness to magnify your own difficulties.
I am not disappointed in the world, I am disappointed in myself.
After all, the world doesn’t look down on me, so I don’t have hope for the world, but I have hope for myself, and I think I should be better.
So I think, people are disappointed with the whole world, and they are likely to be essentially disappointed with themselves.
is likely to feel angry about his powerlessness, so he can only pass it on to disappointment with the whole world.
things are artificial. If you don’t work hard, you will be disappointed first, and of course you will be disappointed in the end. If you work hard and fail, you will be willing to do so.
But the facts may not be without a turning point, and many things have substitutes.
Don’t rush to be disappointed in the world, because it is very likely that all you see is just a corner of the world.
As a female reader told me that she had been talking to her boyfriend for several years and thought she would get married, but eventually broke up. She was disappointed with the world, and love was so fragile.
I immediately threw the sentence of Yishu to her -
"Don't be disappointed with the whole world, there must be fragrant grass within a hundred steps."
She asked me what I mean, and I said there is nothing to be disappointed. Most love affairs will not succeed in one go. It doesn't matter if you break up. If you walk out slowly, you will find that the world is a spring.
You may feel frustrated or even disappointed if you lose a certain flower, but if you are willing to go out for a walk, within a hundred steps, you will find another interesting flower.
I mean, There are no fragrant grasses everywhere in the world , why hang yourself on a tree. If
is not suitable, there will always be someone who is willing to be by your side and watch the sun rise and sunset with you.
There is no need to be disappointed with the whole world, and your work is not recognized. Find ways to improve yourself, or change a company or position, and maybe it will be better.
Don’t be disappointed in the whole world. Although there are many bad things in the world, there are also good things worth celebrating.
Don’t be disappointed in the whole world. What you like is not that person, but that type of person.
can’t buy strawberry cake , so buying strawberry ice cream is also very good.
In life, we strive for a long-term good attitude, not a temporary result.
If you lose the track, you will come back again if you change the track.
This relationship failed, I will change my lover and do it again.
Why bother to be disappointed? It seems that there is no way out when the mountains and rivers are at the end of their lives, but there will always be another village in the dark.
The current difficult questions are very difficult, but there will be answers to the difficult questions. If you fail once, you will summarize your experience and you will be able to pass the next time.
is very simple to disappoint the whole world, you just need to accept your fate.
But my idea is to fight for myself before I die.
Many times, we thought we could only do this, so we gave up.In fact, if you walk dozens of steps forward, you will feel better and you will suddenly feel enlightened.
As adults, gradually discovered that our worries will only increase, and compromise or admit defeat is just the norm in life. But fortunately, in the adult world, as long as you don’t die, you will be lucky.
will get better, except life and death, the rest will be scratched.
We all need to be fine.
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