has seen this sentence:
"Shielding power" is a person's top ability. Anyone or thing that consumes you, it is wrong for you to take a look at it. Being insensitive to other people's eyes and not living in other people's mouths is the most rare soberness.
Indeed, a person’s most amazing ability is to learn to block, block 99% of unimportant things, and then enjoy 1% of life.
So what is shielding force?
The so-called shielding force refers to a person's ability to eliminate negative information and block out secondary and invalid information. Especially in this era of rapid information dissemination, we should have such shielding power. Only in this way can we live a better life.
To give the simplest example, it is like in our life and work, sometimes we always have no way to arrange our time reasonably and effectively allocate our energy. I always feel that I have a lot of things to do, and I also feel that I don’t have enough time.
Why do we feel like this? It is that we receive too much information, always doing this and other things, which in the end we are not doing anything well.
In the final analysis, this is actually because our lack of shielding power has led to our lives being out of control. Therefore, if we want to improve our shielding power, we need to improve our self-control and ability to screen information.
In this way, we can better filter out some useless information. You should know that human energy is limited and it is impossible for everything to be fully covered.
As Murakami Haruki wrote a few sentences in " Norway Forest ": "No matter what everyone in the world says, your own feelings are correct. No matter how everyone in the world thinks, you should not disrupt your rhythm."
Yes! Life is our own, and we should pay more attention to the impact of this matter on ourselves. Of course, there is nothing wrong with others considering. But this does not mean we have to accept everything.
can be automatically blocked if some useless information is selected. Only in this way can we do something more conducive to our lives. Only by focusing on one's own life can one make one's better life.
Just like, things that are wrong need to be abandoned, and those and things that should be let go need to be let go. Because they have no good effect on your life. And such people and things must be blocked from your own life.
Only in this way can we move forward easily and better control our own emotions. It seems that the reason why some people are prone to getting angry is because they care too much about what others say. There is no way to block the impact of others' words on oneself.
So, if a person wants to live a better life, he must learn the ability to block. Because only in this way can you receive useful information.
As someone once asked this question: "Why are the rivers on the map always twisted rather than straight lines?"
has a very praiseworthy answer:
"The process of the river moving forward will always encounter various obstacles. Only bypassing the obstacles can the river continue to move forward to reach the end."
And this is the same as the information we accept. There are many information we can accept, but only a small part of it is really useful to us, and this part is what we need to use.
is like a river is always winding because it knows which ones are suitable for it and which ones are not. And this is its shielding force.
After all, life is our own, and life is our own. We cannot follow the crowd and have our own judgment. We cannot change our life direction just by saying something from others.
should not be disturbed by the noise or the outside world. You should be able to have your own opinions and keep your true heart. Only in this way can your life be better and better, and only in this way can you lose a lot of worries.
This is why a person must have the ability to block.Blocking is not about being unable to hear opinions, but about understanding what is right and what is wrong. This is the real effect of shielding force.
text | Mingfusheng
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