Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism will be prosecuted
01, introduction
Life is like a pool of water, turbid, and will make people live unsatisfactory. However, being too clear is not the best state.
There is a couplet in front of Lingyin Temple. It says: "How can life be so satisfactory? Everything is only half satisfied."
On the road of life, if you care about everything, you must make everything clear. It is clear that it is easy to make yourself feel tired.
If you have too high expectations for things and people, often get entangled with small things, be too sharp and don’t know how to leave a way out for others, your life will get worse and worse.
If you want to live a good life, you must first learn to be a human being. A truly smart person knows how to advance and retreat and knows how to "pretend to be confused".
People live for a lifetime. No matter how rich you are, you must learn to "pretend to be confused".
02. Pretending to be confused is a kind of clever
pretending to be confused, a way to deal with things, and a manifestation of open-mindedness in the heart.
Laozi said: "The common people are so clear, I am alone, and the world is so clear and clear, but I am just confused."
Life is like a lot of things happening, and it cannot be changed. If you pursue it in depth, you will only get yourself into more trouble.
If you care about some small things clearly, it will waste a lot of your time and add to your worries.
A little confused, life will be simpler and calmer.
Keep your heart clear and don’t worry about trivial matters. Use a state of being wise and foolish, focus on the career you want to do, and complete your mission.
Sometimes, acting too smart is a kind of stupidity. Because it makes people dare not talk to each other and dare not get close to each other.
There are many things in life, but they are insignificant. No need to worry about small things and lose your dignity. Learning to be confused about small things is a kind of intelligence.
Everyone has a scale in their heart. Pretend to be confused appropriately, so that people can get along better with each other.
03. Pretend to be confused, leave a way out for people, and leave a way out for people
People get along with each other, don’t worry too much about winning or losing.
No one is sage, so who can do nothing without mistakes? If you know that someone has made a mistake and are willing to give him the opportunity to correct it, it is a manifestation of open-mindedness.
Be kind to others, and when you stand in a low place, you will also be taken care of by others.
On the road of life, be yourself well, the right and wrong of others is actually not important. Pretend to be confused and leave a way for others, and others will know how to be grateful from the bottom of their hearts.
Whether it is working with others or getting along with others, you don’t have to live too seriously.
Because everyone has their own choices and their own path to go. Learning to be tolerant of others and not over-interfering in other people's lives is a kind of respect.
Sometimes, if you know that the other party is wrong, you will give comfort, don’t care, and help him make up for his mistakes, and your friendship will be further deepened. In the future, he will spare no effort when you need help.
Learn to pretend to be confused and not compete with anyone. It is easy to handle your relationship with others well, and your life will be smoother.
04. Learning to pretend to be confused is a kind of vision
People will encounter ups and downs and fall into right and wrong. Learning to pretend to be confused can protect yourself well.
Sheng Minglan in " Knows ", learned that the eldest lady Wang Ruofu poisoned her grandmother under the instigation of her sister Kang. She was very angry and wished she could kill Kang's life.
However, my grandmother regarded it as if she didn't know about it, just said that she had eaten something bad and no longer held her accountable, so she chose to stop. Minglan is unwilling to give up, but my grandmother said this is the best choice.
Grandmother explained that although they have the upper hand in terms of moral character, once they force people to be too late and do things, the two families will inevitably become enemies and will be unfavorable to the children's future.
Learn to pretend to be confused, you can turn big things into small things, and if you turn small things into small things, you can get yourself out of the storm.
Li Shutong said: "Only those who can suffer are patriots, and those who are willing to suffer are not fools."
If you keep calculating for one thing, you will be unable to escape from some "bad things" and will continue to be entangled with people with poor character.
pretending to be confused is also a manifestation of knowing how to behave.
can't do anything too much. If others have no way out, then it is very likely that you will choose to fight to the death with you, which will eventually intensify the conflict and cause further harm to yourself.
05, Send a message to hiding autumn sounds
People live for a lifetime. No matter how rich you are, you must learn to "pretend to be confused".
Smart people actually give people the impression that they are easy-going and not so smart. Good at "pretending to be confused" and not too serious. Always behaves kindly, making people willing to get close to you.
You should not only look at the pros and cons when doing things, but take into account the overall situation.
If you do everything according to your own preferences, you will be willing to revenge and do not know how to make concessions, your life will also add to many difficulties.
takes a step back appropriately and chooses to forgive. Even if you see through it, you will not say it out loud.
Even if some people are false to you, they can pretend to be confused and laugh it off. Just know who is the real friend and maintain it with your heart.
is the real wise man who knows how to "pretend to be confused" and make life simple and happy.
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About the author: Hearing the autumn voice, using his words to make a living. The autumn wind boils rain, a glass of sake, a story of three or two, and you are with you on the lonely road.
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