people are floating in the world, how can they not be killed? But if you get too many knives, people will naturally learn to be smarter and not as confused as before.
From being ignorant when he just left society to being sophisticated after half a lifetime of experience, these are all gains from the hardships of time. The more you temper, the deeper you will have in your understanding of human nature and will no longer be easily grasped by others.
Why do honest people work hard all their lives but gain nothing? It is very regrettable to say that they live like sheep, and no matter how kind they are, they cannot escape the fate of being eaten by people like wolves.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang said that human nature is more interesting than the bright moon and breeze. You can read books and watch them as plays.
The books that people need to read most in their lives seem to be textbooks or classic masterpieces with words, but in fact they are "worldly and human feelings" without words. read through the "worldly and human relationships", and maybe a person will live a life in his life.
After many years, I deeply feel that a person's highest ability to deal with things is not to be a good person blindly or to be too kind. It is precisely to achieve these four things - be accurate in your eyes, be important in your mouth, be quick in your hands, and be ruthless in your heart.
1. The eyes must be accurate: look at the timing and penetrate the hearts of the people.
People often say that a person's ability and realm can be seen from his eyes.
Why are abilities and realm related to eyes? Because the eyes are the window of the soul and the most real place for a person, the manifestations of can directly reflect our abilities and mood.
People with ability can see through their hearts and know what they want to do, and they will not be deceived by outsiders, but will live particularly shrewdly.
Especially in the magical world of human hearts today, if you don’t see people accurately, you may suffer a big loss. There are many newbies who have just left the society. They are caused by inappropriate knowledge of people and cause disasters.
eyes, are you just using it to see through people’s hearts? Not so. The eyes also have the greatest ability - to see the right time. people want to make a fortune and achieve something, without accurate vision, it is difficult to achieve anything.
Time flies by, time passes by. If you accidentally miss some important opportunities, it may become a lifelong regret.
2. The mouth is important: be careful in words and actions, silence is gold.
There is an old senior who graduated from university with a 985-year-old job in a large company with a monthly income of between 25,000 and 30,000. The old man was very happy and his son was also ready to tell others about this good news everywhere.
As a father, he immediately stopped him when he found that his son told others the truth. told him not to speak like this, and would rather tell some kind lies and say the salary lower than too high.
During the Chinese New Year, a relative asked the old man: "Cousin, your son is a top student who graduated from 985. How much is his current income? Is the salary high? Is the salary good?"
The old man responded this way: "My son, don't look at him 985 graduates, he is actually very young. How can he have a high salary? It's 7,000 to 8,000 a month, it's good to support himself."
After hearing this, his relative smiled and had no reaction. Just forget about this matter.
Afterwards, the old man said to his son: It is best not to say anything about money and interests in the world, so as not to be targeted by jealous people. If you really don’t know how to speak, then keep your mouth shut and silence is gold. can protect yourself.
3. Be quick: do things quickly and act decisively.
" Sun Tzu's Art of War · Military Contest " says: "It is as fast as the wind, its sprint is as slow as the forest, its storm is as fire, it is not moving as a mountain, it is difficult to know as the yin, and its movement is as thunder as shaking."
When it is time to move, it must be as fast as the wind. When it is time to stop, it must be as neat as a forest. Both offense and defense must be both. Attack is like a wind swelling the clouds, and defense is like a mountain fortress. The "mouth of mouth" mentioned above is to make people "calm as mountains". When being a person "fast" means "it is as fast as the wind". Don't hesitate too much when doing things, so as not to miss the critical opportunity.
l2 A famous person once said that the reason why ordinary people are difficult to accomplish is that they are taken advantage of by others in the face of indecision and finally lose the opportunity to change their destiny. Work hard in the workplace, try not to procrastinate, and what should be done may be completed on time. Only when you do your career in the future will you have the decisive and tenacious courage and means. . l2 Whether a person is decisive and quick determines his destiny. What step can he take? 4. Be ruthless: don’t be a woman’s kindness, make a decision immediately. When Chu and Han competed with , everyone thought that Xiang Yu could defeat Liu Bang and unify the world. Unexpectedly, What is, Liu Bang actually turned the tables, defeated Xiang Yu, and founded the Han Dynasty. At the beginning, Xiang Yu was obviously the advantage, why did Xiang Yu still fail? Because Xiang Yu was not cruel enough and was too kind to be a woman, so he did not kill Liu Bang at the Hongmen Banquet. Afterwards, even the counselor Fan Zeng said with emotion: "Oh! A man is not good at planning! Those who seize the Xiang King must Pei Gong . I am now captive! . " Later, it really responded to Fan Zeng's words. No matter how brave Xiang Yu was, he was defeated by Liu Bang in Wujiang , forced to farewell to the concubine, and committed suicide in Wujiang, ending up with a tragic and sighing fate. Whether it is doing a career or surviving in the world, without a certain degree of "ruthlessness", it is basically difficult to get through. Go down. is as kind as a sheep and is too soft-hearted, it is like letting the tiger return to the mountain, and there are endless disasters. Be a cruel person, abandon unnecessary bad things, and don’t care about other people’s opinions. Then you will become more and more confident when you live. Text/Shushan Youlu
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