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About parents
Yu Guangzhong Mr. 5 once wrote this passage to his mother: "The most forgotten crying in my life has been two times: once at the beginning of my life, and once at the end of your life. The first time I won't remember, listen to what you said, the second time you won't know, it's useless to say it."
"But between the two cryings, there is endless laughter. Over and over again, echoing for a whole 30 years. You all know, I all remember."
everyone was born with the pain of their mothers, and finally looked at the pain of their relatives, so live a good life process and cherish every day.
every word in Mr. Mr. html seems so plain, but every word is typing on your heart.
There are no gorgeous words, only plain expressions, but they reach people's hearts. This is probably "great love is silent, great sorrow is silent."
have all the insights of
, but it can be expressed in precise and moving words like a great writer and remembered by the world. In this matter, writers and readers are distinguished.
It is precisely because each of us has such an insight that Mr. Yu Guangzhong summarized what we wanted to say, which resonated with us.
Mr. Yu Guangzhong uses ordinary life to express extraordinary power and affection in ordinary words. He not only loves life, but also respects life.
days will eventually return from a tree of flowers to a light wind and clouds, and in the end, to a simple self!
About yourself and your parents
Wang Shuo said: "I don't remember loving my parents. When I was young, I was afraid of them, and I started to annoy them when I was older; then I was pointed at them and quarreled when I met; then I looked down on them and hid from them."
"On the one hand, I felt responsible to them and should be nice to them, but I just couldn't do it or pretend; later, I felt sad when I thought of them."
Although these words are ironic, they are thorns that many people can't pull out. In fact, everything, no matter whether it is right or wrong, has the motivation behind the parties, whether it is good or bad.
Everything has a cause and effect, and everything has a cause and effect.
Each generation has its limitations, and the way to express love is that the parents' generation does not know how to express love, and the way it is a bit rough. This is the creation of the times.
Parents are also ordinary people, not perfect, and there are also right or wrong; similarly, we are not perfect children.
Some parents do not love their children, but their parents do this to them. They do not express their love for their children, and believe that as long as they eat and wear well, they love them, and no matter how their children beat and scolded them, they are love, so that parents and children have no feelings. In fact, they love each other in their hearts.
See if we ourselves are like them, they have given birth to children and become parents. We are better than the previous generation because we read more books. Facing children with different personalities, even if we know how to guide and raise them correctly, we are still at a loss.
Now understand the problem, find solutions, inherit the good ones, correct the wrong ones, and educate the next generation well.
Everyone loves their children differently, and there are no standards for fatherly love and motherly love. Just cherish the present!
About relatives
Luyao once said: "When I was a child, we often regarded the beauty and importance of 'relatives'. Once we grew up and started to live independently, we quickly learned that relatives are often vulgar. We try to benefit from each other, and roll our eyes if we don't care about them.
"Even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives. Life will also tell you that relatives are often not as sincere to you as friends. "
Relatives have good relationships, and most of them are richer. Relatives have bad relationships, and almost all are related to money.
Relatives are the people who are most shameful because everyone starts the same, and when you are well, they will seem very ugly.
I think you are poor and you are afraid that you are rich. You can live a good life, but you can't live a better life than TA. This is the so-called relative and human nature.
Some relatives are destined to collect debts, just like love. At that time, there were also those who paid back their debts. Generally, those who collected more debts and those who paid less debts.
Although this statement is more Buddhist, relatives are always better than passers-by. After all, there are no relatives who have no reason.
But no matter whether it is parents or relatives, in a person’s life, he is the protagonist, others are the supporting roles, and others are just cooperating with you to act.
The relationship between people should not be based on any established relationship, but should be based on mutual respect.
No matter what relationship or what you have experienced, time cannot withstand detailed calculations, and the past cannot withstand detailed reading. Don’t hold on to it.
Slowly learn to let go of all obsessions, because we still have thousands of miles to go, how can we look back and stay again and again?
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