1. What determines what clothes you wear is not your wallet, but your figure. What determines your temper is not your personality, but your position. What determines your taste is not your education, but your experience.
2. Bad mood will always pass. Be more optimistic and happy. As long as you are alive, you will definitely encounter good things!
3. A person’s biggest opponent is often not others, but his own laziness. Don’t expect to be lucky. Luck cannot always be with you. You must make a living by your ability at any time. You have to do your best to be qualified to say that you are not lucky.
4. No matter how good others are, they are still others. No matter how unbearable you are, you are the only one. As long as you work hard to be the best self, your life will be enough. Be responsible for your life and pay for your dreams.
5. A person is not as strong as his life. The fate is yours. If others can’t take it away, they will come back sooner or later; the fate is not yours. Even if you barely get it, they will still be lost sooner or later.
6. Four tools that must be thrown away when you reach a certain age: meaningless drinking party, people who don’t love you, look down on your relatives, and friends who pretend to be false. But you must have four tools: confidence raised on your face, kindness grown in your heart, solar terms that are integrated into your blood, and strength engraved in your life.
7. Take a bath, look at a flower, and eat a meal. If you feel happy, it is not entirely because the bath is clean, the flowers are blooming well, or the dishes are in line with your taste, mainly because you have no worries in your heart.
8. We can’t make decisions about many things. The more you want to hold on, the quickest you will leave you. Therefore, you don’t have to pay too much attention to everything. Take it lightly and take it naturally. If you don’t intend to gain, there is no need to lose.
9. Do you often be ruthless in doing things, not being ruthless enough to yourself, and not being ruthless enough to others? Therefore, you are always sticky, always unable to bear to reject others, always unable to make up your mind to make your life better, always lingering in the past and unable to extricate yourself... After all, you who are indecisive must be cruel once, otherwise you will never be able to live your own life.
10. No matter how hard you work, someone will leave you because of your shortcomings. There is no need to blame others for being too utilitarian, we can only blame ourselves for not being good enough to make people ignore these shortcomings. Companionship is priceless, leaving is reasonable.
11. The word future sounds beautiful, but don’t forget that every bright future we expect must have a hard work now!
12. I chose to be confused, not because I am really confused, because I understand that some things cannot be fought for, and some things can come if I don’t fight for them; I choose a plain life, not because I don’t expect prosperity, because I understand that fame, wealth and wealth are all over the world, and that only by enduring loneliness can one sublimate yourself.
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13. Some things, even though they know they are wrong, they still have to persist because they are unwilling to give up; some people, even though they know they love, they still have to give up because there is no ending; sometimes, even though they know they have no way out, they are still moving forward because they are used to it.
14. It is not easy for anyone to live in the world. We must learn to understand other people's indifference and meanness in kindness, and we must also learn to cherish and treat others' enthusiasm and lenientness.
15. Life cannot be as beautiful as you imagined, nor as bad as you thought. A person's fragility and strength are beyond his imagination. Sometimes, you may be so fragile that you will burst into tears with just a word, and sometimes, you will find that you have walked a long way with your teeth gritting your teeth.
16. When you were young, you threatened to drink thousands of kinds of strong wine all over the world; when you were old, you lamented that boiled water was the most lasting love. Later I realized that heart-warming is passionate love, and concentration is eternal love.
17. No one will make us better and better, and time is just a foil. What supports us to become better and better is our own talent, cultivation, character, and constant reflection and correction.
18. Some people say: When you have no money, you think money is the best, and when you are sick, you think health is the best. People are always like this. They don’t get what they don’t get, they feel precious, they feel sorry for what they have in front of them. They don’t know how to cherish what they have. Little do you know that the best thing is what you have now.
19. Life is a performance that never ends. Each of us is an actor, but some people obey themselves, and some people please the audience.
20. Never doubt yourself because of other people’s remarks, nor do you look down on yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are prepared to accept the person you are now.
21. Don’t lose it, someone who treats you well; don’t despise it, a deep affection for you. Not everyone can tolerate your bad temper, and not everyone can always wait. Nothing is more valuable than time, and nothing is more precious than love. If a person is willing to accompany you, he can give his heart to you. This is love for you.