later began to believe that when a person has irreplaceable abilities in a certain aspect, he has the ability to survive no matter where he goes. This is probably the importance of precipitation. I always thought that leaving a place means everything must start over. Later I realized that some people have already accumulated irreplaceable abilities for themselves in their past experiences, which is probably the meaning of growth!
Since entering the adult world, I have actually been more or less imprisoned by some of the influence of my original family. I have been living in the workplace for several years and have not had nothing to do. I just look a little slow in my growth pace and don’t know how to accumulate experience. I have not planned my life reasonably, but I just lived through every day just by myself. I have always clearly known that a large part of all my achievements in a place are attributed to the platform I am on, so every time I leave, it is a new beginning for me.
Until one day, when I looked at those older people, taking certain work experiences as their life experiences, and continuing to stand at the same height on a new platform, I realized how much impact the sedimentation has on a person. Maybe I have never been very confident in my heart. I don’t believe that one day, I can rely on my work experience to sediment myself. Or, over the years of work experience, I have not truly empowered my abilities, and I am not aware of the integration and scheduling of the surrounding resources.
doesn't know when it started. It seems that the gap between people starts from the first step of calculation. We must admit that those who can deal with these complex interpersonal relationships and know how to recommend and express themselves will seem to be better in this society. To put it bluntly, some scenes can be appreciated by their leaders after saying too much, but in the eyes of their subordinates, it is particularly hypocritical.
Perhaps this is what
still hopes that I can always be a pure person. Of course, this may have ideal components, but people like me who are very materialistic and low-quality, really can't figure out what else in this world is worthy of sacrifice. Maybe everyone I once sneered at is successful in the secular judgment rules. In this world, there are too few people who can survive by relying on simple ideals, but as they grow older, some paranoids will become more and more obvious, and they will be clearer. Not everyone can live clearly, and not everyone can live happily.
has pure happiness, which is also a kind of ability. When facing work over the years, I occasionally feel powerless. It seems that I have never added anything irreplaceable to my life. Just like a person always needs to grow, ability is always just a phased consideration. To keep your life up to date, that is the most important thing. Perhaps it is difficult for everyone to overcome their laziness. In fact, sometimes after a stage, it is inevitable that they will compare with other people's lives. It seems that everyone is living a good life, but why are they the only ones who are often confused and anxious?
probably means that everyone has their own lifestyle in this world. Sometimes when they think deeply, everyone yearns for different lifestyles. The satisfaction of money can indeed motivate themselves in a short time, but in the face of unfathomable desires, I don’t know how much money I have to make to truly have a life. Later, after coming into contact with some people who succeed in the secular definition, I sincerely understand that everyone should have the confidence to make a firm choice, not to be in a group, or to cater to some ideas and concepts at different levels.
After more things have been experienced, the more courage we have to be ourselves. No matter what the world is, as long as everyone’s core things have not changed, they will always be able to stick to their original direction. I think the so-called success and failure have always been conceptual things. For a person without material desires, it is more about pursuing spiritual comfort. While maintaining the realistic side of real life, we carefully maintain our dreams. Later, we try to understand the underlying logic of life, and only then find that time has already written all the answers into our experience.
is just that people are always the easiest to be confused by the authorities. Later, they met many people, and their lives have reached a stage of constantly making choices. There are too many life suggestions from others, too many things can easily affect their judgment. Later, they injected too many things into their lives, but they didn’t know how to make screening. In this life, the probability of meeting the person who resonates with the same frequency is almost one in billion. We are just living in various values, but some people are still persisting. I said that I don’t want to be a secular person, but I still can’t escape those secular evaluations. Some choices are betting on loneliness for a lifetime.
The habit of reading that I have been persisting in is because in the world of text, I really get comfort. In this life, it is not easy for a person to see through life and death, and it is even more difficult to see fame and fortune indifferently. In fact, most people have been pursuing so-called success all their lives, but in the end, they cannot face their inner world. But I am dissecting my own separation again and again, reconciling with my past self bit by bit. I also want to throw away a person's nature and pursue some so-called success in the world, but things in my bones are actually difficult to abandon. I will probably be an ordinary person forever, always guarding my own small world, and then trying to do something meaningful.
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