However, in the face of real life, we are often unable to do so and are often exhausted. I think no one can give a definite answer. Everyone pursues different things, but one thing is certain, the fame, wealth and wealth we gain in this life cannot be taken away.

text/Xiaoting Banqing

Nietzsche once said: In fact, people are the same as trees. The more they yearn for the sunshine at a higher place, the more their roots stretch towards the dark underground.

If you want to achieve great success, you must first suffer enough.

However, in the face of real life, we are often unable to do so and are often exhausted.

Even we can’t help but question: What is the purpose of living a lifetime?

I think no one can give a definite answer. Everyone pursues different things, but one thing is certain. The fame, wealth and wealth we have obtained in this life cannot be taken away.

Maybe one day we will all understand: living is actually an experience. Whether it is good or bad, it is our own life and no one can replace it.

. What delays you is not luck and timing, but your countless hesitation.

We often complain that we are not lucky, missed some important opportunities, or missed the person we should cherish the most.

Little do you know that life never gives us too much time in the face of opportunities.

If you are often hesitant and often think about it, then there will always be someone who makes a decision one step ahead of you.

The so-called luck is when the opportunity comes knocking on the door, you answer.

Follow your heart and do what you should do. There will always be your own opportunities.

. You are the ones you in the past; you in the future are the ones you in the present.

We all know that life is full of causal cycles.

Our living conditions today are created by all the things yesterday, and today one after another will form your brand new tomorrow.

So, what kind of tomorrow you want to have, you have to do the right thing today. Only by making changes can you embrace tomorrow step by step.

. The less you read, the easier it is to be dissatisfied with the outside world, and the more you read, the easier it is to be dissatisfied with yourself.

People who read less always blame their misfortune on the outside world, complain about the injustice of fate, complain about the cruelty of society, and tell the harm others have given to them, but never think about whether they have any problems.

And when you read more and more books and see through the various aspects of life, you will explore inward and realize that your various frustrations are actually caused by your lack of hard work, toughness, and independence.

blindly complaining to people outside and always feel that they are the best. This is the blindest cognition.

And people who know how to reflect on themselves can not only see their own problems, but also understand the difficulties of others. This is a clear enlightenment.

. There has never been a single step in this world, and all achievements are the result of accumulation and hard work.

We all have a common problem. We can't see the people around us making great achievements. We always blame his success on luck, interpersonal relationships, etc., but we are unwilling to admit that it is his efforts.

This is the bad nature of our human nature. We are unwilling to admit the efforts and excellence of others, which just shows our guilt.

Maybe you have the same background and the same time, but in the end there is a different ending.

People who can calm down and accumulate themselves are often tough characters. Where can they become famous overnight? It is just the result of accumulation over time.

If you are willing to pursue your dreams day after day, one day, you will also gain your own success.

. Pain is not because you get too little, but because you want too much.

Schopenhauer once said: Desire is the root of human pain, because desire can never be satisfied.

And in many moments in life, you feel pain and anxiety, not because you have too few things, but because you have too many desires.

We always like to look at things that do not belong to us, and ignore the beautiful things around us.

If you find with your heart that there are people who love you in life and hot meals on the table, your life has already achieved many, many good things.

Don't always envy other people's lives. Maybe not far away, and someone is secretly looking up at you.

Reduce desires, learn to cherish, and when you find something truly worthwhile in life, you will understand that God has long given you enough things.

6. For people with disagreement, there is no need to have a long talk. For people whose fate has ended, there is no need to be entangled.

Thousands of people in the world all have their own uniqueness, just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no two identical people.

Our birth background, growth environment, thoughts and cognition and three views are different, so everyone will have their own ideas and definitions.

is the same thing. Just chat if you can, and you can’t talk. There is no need to force yourself into a circle that is not suitable for you.

Please say less to those who cannot be kept. Let go of those who cannot be kept.

7. When talent cannot support one's ambition, one can only work silently.

It is a good thing to have dreams, but dreams and fantasies are two different things after all.

When your talent cannot support your dreams, the only thing you can do is to make efforts silently, rather than complain about others.

No matter how ambitious it is and how good the plan is, if you don’t take action for a long time, everything will be a bubble.

8. This world is so imperfect, you have to lose whatever you want.

As long as something happens, we can't go back to the past. What you get is always lost, and the balance of life will not tilt at will.

When we get it, we are full of joy, but when we lose it, we complain everywhere, but we don’t know that all the gains and losses in the world are fixed in the dark.

9. What destroys a person is never strength, but one word: laziness.

Lazy is human nature, and everyone likes a life of lying flat.

Laziness is an important factor that hinders a person from moving forward.

Everyone has the same 24 hours. Some people can use their free time to improve themselves and create different value, while others waste their time and constantly waste their time, ultimately making today's laziness a difficult situation for tomorrow.

0. In the stream, fish often feel that they are big, but when they reach the sea, they realize their insignificance.

We are all very small existences in the long river of history, or in the universe.

Some people regard themselves as noble, some are arrogant, and some are arrogant, because the world we have seen is too small.

When you have seen a wider sky and a better crowd, you will understand that there are mountains outside the mountain and there are people outside the mountain.

We are very small, but we still have the strength to still shine on our own stage.

Lu Xun said: The future is long and very dark, but don’t be afraid, only those who are not afraid will have a future.

As long as we still have life and love, we can step out of our own sunshine avenue.