The old saying goes: "Gift is light and affection is heavy." As long as you have deep feelings, even a word of heart-to-heart talk will be better than a cart of silk jade. True friendship is heart-to-heart talk rather than things.
Everyone’s economic situation is different. When faced with human relationships and worldly affairs, you should not be ashamed of a fat man, nor should you follow the trend. Doing according to your ability is a wise move.
The feelings exchanged with the heart are plain and warm, and if the feelings exchanged with the things can only be a drinking poison to quench thirst.
gifts are paid only for benefits
participants have now changed from the original expression of a kind of heart to a kind of money burden.
No matter what relationship, relatives, friends, colleagues, classmates, superiors and subordinates, or partners, when encountering various banquets, if the friendship between each other is measured purely by the amount of money, and thus favor one or the other, what kind of relationship can be maintained for such snobbish thoughts?
No matter how developed the economy is and how progressed the society is, only the sincere feelings between people are the most fundamental needs. If a person is separated from this need and takes money at least, then a person with this concept must be destined to be a snobbish and indifferent person from the bottom of his heart. His greed is a bottomless pit, and no matter how much you treat him, he will be unsatisfied.
Knowing that it is such a person, you can refuse even if you receive an invitation. Don’t draw a clear line because such people only recognize money but not people. They call themselves brothers when they have money, and speak coldly when they have no money.
For snobs who only have money and power, they will regard their feelings as dirt. They either serve their preferences or stay away from them. Why bother to lose money and get humiliated?
Follow the gifts and blessings. For those who value money and neglect righteousness, no matter how much you give, you cannot satisfy your desires. Therefore, follow the gifts and vary according to the person. People who are not worthy of communication are worse than breaking up.
Follow the gift and the heart, the true friendship is
The friendship between a gentleman is as light as water, and the friendship between a villain is as sweet as honey. People who value relationships and are loyal to each other value friendship and regard money as the meal.
View people and make friends with each other. In life, the most important thing is not how much wealth you have, but how human it is.
Some people have high power and wealth, although they are surrounded by snobbish and hypocritical people. When they are blessed, the door is crowded with people, but when they are in trouble, they leave and tea is cold, and there is not even a person who holds an umbrella for you.
Therefore, friends should have a heart-to-heart talk, not a vow at the wine table, nor a devotion in money. A talent who can interact with you in a simple and respectful way is worth cherishing for a lifetime.
People who are truly knowledgeable and knowledgeable will never reciprocate in the power of gold and jade. What they always focus on is the beauty of friendship and respect and help. Money seems to be a changing communication.
True feelings can be honest, or share life and death. There is no need to be a car or a villa, nor a cow or a horse. It is just to appreciate each other, a blessing or a handful of flowers is enough to accompany each other for a lifetime.
Ask the gifts, it depends on the heart without deliberateness. People who know each other and understand each other and communicate with each other, money is just a symbol and don’t care much. Only supporting each other and never leaving each other is the true friendship.
Follow the gifts, what follows the heart. Only when the heart arrives, the gold is just a pile of waste paper. May you and I be able to follow your heart on the road of life without intention, and to be calm in everything, and to be obsessed with deliberate people.
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