When we were young and ignorant, we lacked awe of all things in the world, and regarded ourselves as the center of everything, and felt that everything was spread out by ourselves. This is a whirlpool in which we are circling with the world, but because of ignorance and innocence, the children who are deeply trapped in the whirlpool have no worries, but are full of infinite imagination and infinite possibilities because of the unknown!
Later, we grew up slowly and realized that the world was so big and we were so small. Between the mountains, we were so small that we were like a grain of sand in the desert and a drop of water in the sea. As a result, we become a lot of trouble and very distressed. Sometimes we see through it, sometimes we are unable to do so, sometimes we lack motivation, and sometimes we feel meaningless, which makes us fall into the whirlpool of "confronting ourselves".
"Take yourself against yourself" means competing with yourself, which is mainly manifested as: not knowing yourself, not accepting your fate, not being content, not cherishing, inaction, unrealistic, etc. We reflect on ourselves and take the role of the person. Sometimes we are in trouble and cannot convince ourselves to be happy. We always doubt ourselves, torture ourselves, and practice ourselves!
People who "treat yourself" are cowardly because they can't fight against the outside world and cannot change the status quo, so they give up and doubt their life; people who "treat yourself" are stupid, and life is rare and ordinary. It is insignificant for anyone to put in a large enough time and space, so why bother yourself to make things difficult for yourself; people who "treat yourself" are pitiful. In this world, the person we should love the most is ourselves. No matter how high or low you are, if you don't love yourself, how can you talk about happiness?
Life is only a few decades and is fleeting. Therefore, we cannot always be deeply trapped in the whirlpool of "confronting ourselves", struggling and unable to extricate ourselves. We must try to jump out and try to reconcile with ourselves. Once we reconcile with ourselves, we will reconcile with the world, and life will become bright and clear.
In life, we should not always look at others and envy others, especially what others deliberately show you. What they let you see is only what they want you to see, which is not true, and is definitely not everything. Others have a wealthy and free life, other people's wives are beautiful and understanding, others can succeed easily, others are living the life you want, but you turn a blind eye to other people's efforts, difficulties, pressure, and even hard to describe. And you may actually be the other person in the eyes of others. You are envious of others and are also envied by others.
At work, we must work hard and do what we can. Anyone who is motivated is more willing to perform positively at work, in order to rise to a higher and better platform, to be recognized by more people, and to realize personal value to the greatest extent. This is understandable. Soldiers who don’t want to be generals are not good soldiers, but there is only one general in an army of thousands or tens of thousands of people.
God doesn't have the energy to create so many heroes, great men and people born extraordinary, and everyone is great, then everyone is ordinary. Most people are born ordinary, but they must know themselves, find the right position, bend down, take one step at a time, and create extraordinary achievements in ordinary positions.
When we get along with others, we must not punish ourselves with other people's selfishness or mistakes. Everyone is born selfish. There is a saying in Caigentan: "If you are hungry, you will be attached; if you are full, you will be hot; if you are burned, you will be abandoned; if you are cold, you will be troubled; if you are in trouble, you will be troubled." When the Warring States Period, when Mengchangjun was developed, three thousand diners gathered, and later they fell into desolation, and all three thousand diners were scattered in birds and beasts.
In this world, there are all kinds of people, and there are many selfish, shameless, lack of morality, and low-quality people. We should learn from the virtuous and walk hand in hand with like-minded people. If we see bad things, we will hide away. Some evils may be engraved into our bones and we cannot change them. (Text/Li Xuejie)