Almost everyone in modern society has pressure, and pressure is everywhere. Because society is developing rapidly, under the conditions of increasing information development, people have seen too many differences between people, which really corresponds to the saying: There is no

Almost everyone in modern society has pressure, and pressure is everywhere.

Because society is developing rapidly, under the conditions of increasing information development, people have seen too many differences between people, which really corresponds to the saying: There is no harm without comparison!

When a person sees someone much better than him, especially when the people around him are much better than him, sometimes he will feel dissatisfied and may feel uncomfortable or even feel uncomfortable.

All of this is actually the embodiment of human nature. Because people all have the nature of wanting to show their abilities, there is huge energy hidden deep in everyone's heart. But many times people don’t know their potential, and they don’t know how to realize it. So seeing others’ excellence is just not convinced, but there is nothing to do. So some people will feel pain.

But it is impossible to be unwilling to accept it. If you want to make yourself better, you must have clear ideas and practical actions.

At this time, the pressure truly becomes the motivation, because this motivation further taps the potential and then cultivates excellent abilities through a large number of actions. At this time, the self is no longer the same as before. Looking back at the people or things I had not been convinced of at the beginning, it may be a completely different feeling, not the pain I had in the past, but the pride and happiness I am now.

So how to turn pressure into power?

(a) A lot of learning. If you already know that you are a big gap compared to others, then the only way to surpass the other party is to learn from the other party like him. The modern thinker Wei Yuan said it well: "Learn from the barbarians' strengths to control the barbarians." Of course, we do not have to defeat others, but to improve ourselves, at least to raise ourselves to a higher level than our previous level.

There are many ways to learn. Read books, listen to audio, search for information, apply for courses, and even learn from masters, etc.

As long as you have the determination, you will definitely come up with a solution.

(2) A lot of actions. With the guidance of learning, we need to practice a lot according to the knowledge and methods we have learned. There was once a saying: ,000 hours law can change life. That is to say, when a person can practice a certain skill for ten thousand hours, he can make perfect due to proficiency. Of course, someone added this theory, that is, the premise of practicing for ten thousand hours is that each new exercise and action requirements are beyond the previous one. It cannot be just repeated mechanically.

In short, you just understand high-level theories and cannot become excellent without a lot of practice.

To sum up, when you feel stressed, you must first seek change from your ideas, learn from experts, and then rely on continuous efforts to practice what you think and learn. As the saying goes: As long as you work hard, you can grind an iron pestle into a needle. Believe in your potential and make everything possible.