Many people like to ask "if" -
In various questions and answers, many people will see that they ask questions like "If life only has the last day left", "If there is no birth, old age, sickness and death", "If people can live forever", "If that thing has not happened..."...
All kinds of similar "if" questions are a kind of question about things that cannot happen or have not happened in life. What is the use of asking about things that cannot happen? For things that have not happened, even if you get a certain answer, it is just an answer that the other party imagines. Whether it is a serious answer or a casual statement, the answerer may not be responsible for any answer given by these "if" questions. Any answer given by the answerer is nothing but emotional satisfaction for the person who asks the question, which can be used for reference and reference in real reality, with almost no meaning.
- These "if" questions that have little to do with real work and life can be attributed to two true realities of the person who asked the question: escapism and nothing to do.
The wheel of life, including the wheel of life of the person who asks the question, is constantly moving forward. Everyone is struggling hard on their own life path. The most precious time and energy that constitute life are used in such dispensable "if" questions. What is the meaning?
Question about "if" -
Don't ask "if", because your "if" question will force the other party into your escape from reality and have nothing to do. In other words, you not only waste your precious time, but also forcibly waste the other party's precious time;
Don't ask "if". Once you ask it, it means that you lack sufficient control and predictive ability for things. Since that is the case, no matter how the other party answers, you will not be able to truly comprehend.
does not need to ask "if". If you have enough observation, understanding and thinking ability, you can predict the development of things. No matter how the other party answers, it will not affect your prediction. Therefore, the place where you need to spend effort is not to ask "if", but to constantly enhance your observation, understanding and thinking ability. What has happened to
is that it has happened, and it is useless to ask "if"; what has not happened to
may never happen, and asking "if" is a waste of time;
really happens, asking "if" is a waste of time, be prepared, and face the moment that will happen calmly in the future, even the best answer is that you don't have to ask. Any questions raised by
, fundamentally speaking, are hopes to solve their own problems. No matter what problem, the nearest way to solve the problem is to face reality, and the most efficient way is to be down-to-earth. ——Walking forward without asking the "if" in life, choosing to face up to the future, not consuming energy, and continuing to strengthen one's ability to move forward in life is the most useful answer to any "if" question.
(Author: Yiyu Yiguan)
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