There is a saying: "Everything withered and prosperous, and life is busy with nothing."
Everything in this world actually has a "fixed number". No matter how hard we make a fuss, it's just a waste of time. It is time to succeed, but it will still succeed. And it is impossible to avoid failure after all. Why does the so-called "fixed number" appear?
In fact, , the huge world, is a big book. We are all characters in the book, but we are bound by "just because we are in this mountain", so we cannot recognize ourselves. Since the book
has an beginning, it must have an ending. Just like the "outline" at the beginning of the book. And our life trajectory is hidden in this so-called "outline".
Professor Wang Defeng of Fudan University once said with emotion that he did not believe in "life" when he was young. After middle age, I have to believe it. Because your experience will make people feel their own insignificance and the vastness of the world.
Su Shi said: "You can send a mayfly in the world, and you will be a grain of rice in the vast ocean." The world and the vast ocean are endless, while the lifespan of ordinary people is short.
people, they will not fully understand that these fixed numbers are difficult to change, so don’t bother.
1. The past has become a regret, don’t bother.
Mr. Yang Jiang said that in the past, people are just smiling.
Some people have left, and no matter how much we try to keep, it will be useless. Some things have happened, and no matter how much we feel regretful, we can't change anything.
There is no so-called "regret medicine" in this world, and no one can go back to the past. is a bit bad. Even if we do these things that have happened a hundred times, we cannot change the final result. If you feel that it is difficult to understand this point, then you only need to compare the "sea" and "tributary" to understand it clearly.
The sea is the end point of all tributaries, and the tributaries of different rivers will flow continuously into the sea. Even if they change the direction of the flow, the end point is still the sea, and that will not change.
So, we should not regret the past, nor should we bother ourselves about it. We must firmly believe that since it has happened, it is the best arrangement of fate.
2. There are certain numbers for rich and poor.
There is a saying that goes very realistic: Small wealth depends on diligence, medium wealth depends on virtue, and great wealth depends on fate.
If we are just working class and help our boss work, then we should not have the idea of being rich. Because the salary framework set by the boss is just to give you a full meal, and it cannot give you extra money.
The so-called "I-word is difficult to make a name for itself" is the reason. The essence of hard work is to create huge wealth for the boss, and making some small money for yourself to eat is not much meaning.
Of course, if you want to make medium wealth, or make huge wealth, such as a net worth of tens of millions or hundreds of millions, it depends on your "destiny". Without the fate of being rich and powerful, it would be useless for anyone to help you.
Take the rich as an example. How did their first pot of gold come about? The truth behind it may be beyond our imagination. Of course, no one will tell you these truths. black and white, can never be understood according to daily logic.
We just need to understand one thing. All the money you make in is like walking a tightrope. If you win , you will win both fame and fortune. And if you lose, you can only end here. What is the result depends on fate.
3. It depends on our blessings.
When we reach fifty years old, I believe we have seen through the vicissitudes of the world and know the difficulties and difficulties in the world. What’s important is that it is God’s great gift to be able to reach the age of fifty without disasters.
In the last year, a wealthy man with a net worth of 10 billion yuan left before he was 50 years old, which is extremely sad. Rich people cannot avoid accidents in life, so how can they be ordinary people?
In your opinion, what step can our lives go and what should we look at?
Some people think it depends on material things; some people think it depends on money; some people think it depends on health habits. , in fact, nothing is useful. Everything is determined by personal "blessings" and "virtue".
For example, a 49-year-old middle-aged man is very rich, but he just left when he was unexpectedly. Even if the money is useful, it cannot be saved. This is what we often say, "Is this fate supposed to be."
The so-called "The King of Hell wants people to die in the third update, who dares to keep people until the fifth update." This is the reality. No one knows when the god of death and the accident will come. Everyone is constantly moving towards the distance in the dark trajectory of life.
to the end
The older people are, the more they believe in cause and effect and destiny. In the eyes of young people, this is an old and conservative idea. And to those who have experienced it, this is the truth that life tells us.
Whether we believe in cause and effect or not, we cannot stop what should happen to . And it is difficult for us to force things that should not have happened.
A Zen master once said, Live a life with a calm mind, live a life with a normal mind, look at the world naturally, and look at life with a calm mind.
Put your mind flat and take the persistence of being a human being indifferent, and then our lives will become more and more free and easy. Without the restraint of the inner demons, more freedom and peace.
text/Shushan Youlu
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