Author: No. 1 Emotion
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often hear people say: "There are red near the red, and the like is black near the ink". What kind of person you interact with will gradually become who you are.
In our lives, some people appear as disasters, and some people appear as blessings. It depends on how you choose and what kind of reaction and treatment you need to make.
For example, when our lives are at the peak, some words sound "faithful and unpleasant", but this person is here to help you, and it is a blessing for you. If you drive it away, you will definitely not be able to survive the disaster.
Life is long, some people help you stand on the top of the mountain, and some people pull you to the bottom of the valley.
In our lives, these three people are here to "send" you, don't miss it!
reminds you all the time to be modest and low-key
I have to admit that people are particularly prone to getting lost when they are in glory, and feel that they are already too powerful, so they start to be arrogant. In one word, it is "arrogant".
But if a person is too "arrogant", it will inevitably bring trouble and trouble to himself. After all, there is heaven beyond heaven, and there are people outside of others. There will always be people who can't stand you and cause trouble to you. At this time, there will indeed be many people bragging around you, making you lose yourself step by step.
At this time, a humble and low-key person will appear. He does not think that you are not powerful, but to save you. If you do not listen to him and are still arrogant, you will see clearly the true faces of these people when you fall to the bottom.
Those who once praised you the most will step on you when you are down and out, and the person who wants to save you has been broken by you, so I am willing to be by your side.
Some time ago, a colleague fell into a state of arrogance and felt that he had no opponents in the company, so he was jealous and hated by many people. His best friend advised him to be low-key and humble so that he could tolerate you. But he was a celebrity around his leader at that time, and he regarded his friend's words as a kind of jealousy.
In the end, this colleague went from the position of the most trusted vice president to being laid off after being reported by the company's employees. To put it bluntly, he didn't know how to keep a low profile and did not cherish the friend who could save himself.
I have to say that in the most glorious time a person can meet someone who tries to keep you low profile, it is worth cherishing because he is the one who comes to save you.
In the darkness, people who still guide you
Han Yu " Horses Say " writes: "There are horses that are often there, but Bole does not."
No matter how talented you are, you need to be favored by Bole, otherwise you may achieve nothing in your life and will not reach the height you should have. In fact, this is the same as a person in the darkness. Without anyone guiding you, you will always be lost. Even if you are in the right direction, it will take longer and pay more.
Many times, Bole's help is greater than his own efforts.
When you are about to get lost in the darkness, you can meet a guide, and he is the noble person in life.
Sanmao once said: When you are deeply confused and no one is willing to help you, someone appears in front of you and guides you, then this person is the one who survives the tribulation in your life.
As the name suggests, the tribulation crustor is the person who helps you with tribulation. It is like a ship that cannot find the direction on the sea. Suddenly seeing the lighthouse on the shore, he found the right direction in an instant.
At the low point, the person who still wants to pull you up
recognizes a person, not how much he supports you when you are in the glory, but whether he is willing to help you when you fall into a low point.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: Only when people are in a humble state can they see the various aspects of the world!
When you are in a glorious position, you will inevitably be surrounded by people, and even a steady stream of people visiting you. But once you are in a low point, you may be neglected. Few people can be friends with down-and-out people, and they are even said to be a hit.
If there is someone in your life who is willing to pull you in the trough, then congratulations, the person who has passed the tribulation has arrived, and you must cherish this friendship.
In this life, meeting a noble person who helps you is a blessing in your life. Don’t lose him, otherwise it will be difficult for you to re-enter the rules if you love you in your life.
So, be kind to the person who is willing to help you at the trough.
like this sentence very much: Some people meet to repay kindness, they come to save you. When each other's eyes are intertwined, you should know that you have met the right person and will spend the rest of your life to cherish this rare friendship.
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