Faced with the word complaining, everyone in life will hear it and complain, but after complaining, some people take action, while others keep the same, even worse!
Some people seem to be born to complain, complaining about the company, complaining about colleagues, complaining about salary, complaining about customers, complaining about criticism, complaining about salary too low and paying too much, complaining about unfair assessment system, complaining about chaotic management, complaining about leaders being arbitrary and tyrannical, complaining about not having a good family, complaining about not marrying a good husband, complaining about their own children not as smart as others...
It seems that there is nothing he doesn't complain about. But is complaining useful? Can complaining solve the problem? Endless complaints will also make people around you dislike you, and no one likes to listen to others’ complaints all day long. Because this is very negative.
There is a family of three. The family is so poor that there is nothing. The son is so thin that his parents have to take their children to the street to beg. But the whole day has been gone without any results, and the little boy is so hungry that he almost faints. Mom and dad were very anxious and begged God to save their son with a more pious heart than prayer.
So, God sent an envoy to the earth. The messenger said to the three people, I can help each of you realize a wish, and this family was skeptical after hearing this. First, the child's mother couldn't wait to say to the messenger: "I want you to create a truck of bread for us, and I want my son to eat full."
As soon as he finished speaking, a truck of bread really appeared in front of him. The child's father was very surprised at first, but then he was very angry. I kept complaining that my wife was stupid and wasting such a good opportunity was only exchanged for a car of cheap bread. When the messenger asked him what he wanted, he said angrily: "I don't want these cheap breads. Please turn this stupid woman into a stupid pig."
just finished speaking, and the bag magically disappeared, and the child's mother really turned into a pig. This scared the child. While looking at the "pig" in front of him, he cried sadly and said to the messenger: "Please, I don't want a pig, I want a mother." As soon as the child finished speaking, the mother really changed back. The messenger said helplessly: "I have given you hope, but because of complaints, you have wasted all the opportunities." After that, the messenger disappeared.
The family of three still returned to the state before the messenger appeared. There was no bread or pig, and the child was so hungry that he cried.
Most people think that "complaint" is just a way to vent. Who of us can swear that we have never complained? But if the content of complaining is repeated constantly, it means that the problem has not been solved. You are just trying to use complaining instead of the courage to face the problem.
If you don’t solve the problem, just complaining blindly, complaining will not only not alleviate the dilemma you are facing, but will double the original worries and appear in your mind for a long time. Everything in life can become the object of complaints. If you stop complaining and think about the problem from a different perspective, you will find that through hard work, you can change the status quo and gain the experience of success and happiness, because there are always two aspects of things, the key is that you face it and solve it.
complaining will only bring negative effects. The more you complain, the more you will find that there are more and more things worth complaining about. The more time you complain, the less time you improve. People with a lot of resentment always exude a temperament of anger and resentment from the sky, which will make you feel that when you get along with him, there will always be a dark cloud covering your mood in a sunny day; only when you leave him will your mood be "high in sunshine".
Stop your complaints! More positive energy every day.
(Some of the information comes from books, please delete if infringement)
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