Hello everyone, I am Xiao Nuan!
Some time ago, when I was reading a comment on an article, I was instantly shocked by a sentence: How much time does adults belong to me?
Many times, we are working hard for work and life, but we have very little time left for ourselves. We play many roles, but we are not ourselves.
How long we desire to have our own time, be alone, be free to allocate, and do whatever we want.
Below are the feelings of several netizens. Let’s take a look:
1.@Go Diyun
How much time does adults belong to themselves?
My answer is: Adults have no time except for the time when they fall asleep.
When I was a child, I was looking forward to growing up, and I thought that I would be free when I grew up. When I grew up, I envy the days when I didn’t think about anything when I was a child.
Adults bear too much, too many to express the bitterness of adults in words.
Adults represent themselves taking on the pressure in life, and wanting to work, earn money, support the family, and eat, etc. …
Working hours are work, and sometimes you have to rush to work, work after work, and take care of your family. Time does not belong to you at all, and only when you are asleep can time really belong to you.
When I was still in school, I watched the video. After the adult returned home, he sat silently in the parking lot for more than ten minutes, enjoying his time. I don’t understand. Going home was also enjoying his time!
Later, when I became an adult, after I got married, I found that he had to enjoy how much he had to sit in the parking lot for more than ten minutes!
After becoming an adult, after getting married, on my way home, I would choose to get off at the intersection of two stations away from home, walk home slowly, look at the scenery on the roadside and the world of bright lights and wine, and enjoy the half hour of my own time when I walked home.
Because I know very well that the time I go home does not belong to me at all. Time is the parents, the wife, and the children. Going home is the nagging of parents and wives, and the noise of children, and time never belongs to me.
As adults, I understand: the time for adults is only the time when they fall asleep, think about nothing, listen to nothing, and have nothing to do.
At the end of the work, I wish adults to have half an hour of time after work.
2.@dora123123luck
Adults seem to have very little time to their own.
is rushing day after day, year after year, often bound by work and family, and even on weekends, they are often asked to work overtime. In this case, it is particularly important to seize the time of the morning and evening.
"Night is the time for adults to redeem themselves."
After get off work, I will spread out my books, take reading notes, review today's gains, broaden my horizons, and improve myself. Or open the window and blow the cool but not cold breeze at night, do yoga and relax.
You can also listen to music to clean the room. A clean and clean room will make you feel much more pleasant. Take a hot bath, apply a facial mask, and fall asleep on the soft bed. You might as well use this precious time before going to bed to recharge yourself.
Sometimes I feel so exhausted that I will change into home clothes after taking a shower and then "paralyze" on the bed and sleep until dawn.
or get up early. The morning light poured down, and the sunlight outside the window was like shiny golden fragments, illuminating the journey of the morning shift.Make yourself a delicious breakfast, you can change the styles, bagels , hamburgers... During this period, you can do nothing without guilt.
Only in these times, time belongs to you.
No matter what, you must maintain your expectations and love for life. I wish all you who empathize with me will be happy.
3.@ Liang Hao
Although I am still a student, I feel that I have less and less time to go to college. I can't work hard for learning like before, and intensive trivial matters surrounded me.
One day belongs to me, maybe only the three hours after school in the evening - 9:30 to 1:30.
In just three hours, it is the most relaxing and completely own time of the day.
Take a hot bath, then lie down on the bed warmly, pull the bed curtain, hold the computer and start writing or drawing.
I don’t like to create in the dormitory where people come and go - even if I know that no one will pay attention to me - write something that I like but readers may not necessarily like; write a script at will, don’t draw those regular things, and be an undefined painter.
may also open English and read it to yourself in a low voice, and record it and play it before going to bed.
I like to start live broadcasts to code words. For example, now, I don’t pursue how many people can watch it, but I code words in front of the screen with netizens from all over the world, listen to the same song, and write their own stories in my pen.
Life is stealing more and more time, so the little it snatches back in its hands seems extremely precious.
4.@Xiaowu
I am a working mother. When I saw this topic, I was really touched.
is busy working during the day and taking care of children at night. He is busy all day, but if you think about it carefully, what about my time? It’s really very rare.
I usually get off work at 6 o'clock in the evening and get home around 7 o'clock. When I got home, I helped take care of the children and cooked. It was about 8 o'clock after the meal.
After dinner, I take care of the baby. When I finish my baby's work, it's about 10 o'clock. Sometimes I make a fuss and go to bed at half past 10 o'clock. Bathing your baby, washing clothes, and doing all kinds of housework. Fortunately, my mother-in-law has helped, otherwise she would really collapse. My husband can't help at all, and it's thankful that he can help occasionally.
So, the time that really belongs to you is about half an hour! Half an hour before going to bed.
After I was busy for a day, I finally could take a good rest, but at this time I was often very tired. Apart from browsing your phone and watching videos, you don’t have much energy.
It's okay on Saturday and Sunday, I feel that the time is relatively more. But most of the extra time seems to be spent on children and family trivial matters.
How much time does adults have to belong to themselves? For me, it really only has about half an hour. Now I am also communicating with my family to see if it will be better in the later stage.
However, I also comfort myself, don't be too pessimistic. The days now are also my choice. It’s not that easy for adults, right! We’re going to improve slowly, and we’re looking forward to getting better slowly!
5.@Fish in the water
This topic is too simple, isn’t it?
Our company gets off work early and gets off work at 5 o’clock every day. I used to work overtime until 6 o’clock or even later.
supper is casually solved outside, and occasionally I go to the company's canteen to eat, so I basically don't have any worries about cooking.
I am a single dog now, and no one cares about me when I get home later.I often ride a small electric donkey around after dinner, and this should be my own time. Haha, the time after get off work belongs to me!
The company's business is in a downturn this year, and there are many colleagues who have left their jobs. The boss calls him poor every day, and there is no hope of a salary increase. From time to time, I also sting all kinds of stings and formulate various systems to deduct wages, so now I have lost my passion for work, I am just hanging around and waiting for the opportunity.
So, now it is basically withdrawn at 5 o'clock. Sometimes I feel hungry after work and go to eat. After dinner, I check the time. It is less than 6 o'clock.
From 6 o'clock to 12 o'clock in the evening, it is counted as 6 minutes a day. Of course, sometimes I go to bed early now, and subtract another half an hour and one hour.
I know that I haven’t had a girlfriend now and I haven’t gotten married. Of course, it’s also because I get off work early. My buddy, I get off work at 9 pm, so there is no time for me.
So, cherish the present first and live your life well!
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